How is this an art? Just stick your cock in her pussy and start thrusting…right? Lol, I usually don’t lol here, but again, we’ve met couples where the man is done in a couple minutes after penetration. Others slip it in, place a concentration stare somewhere and fuck her until finished. Other’s have ED issues which is a serous issue, but we will cover later.
Most of the time, the woman will want a man to lake lead. She wants to be taken, positioned how he wants, and she will likely comply, but for this “gift of light submission” she wants to be pleasured. Start with some simple teasing, oral, fingers, toys, get her body worked up like powder keg. When you’re about to fuck her, regardless of the position, tease her with your cock, rub your head against her clit, slip yourself in slightly and then out again. Slowly slip it inside and fuck her without fully penetrating. She will likely be grabbing your ass at some point wanting all of you…then give it to her, but try to be random, fuck her hard, then slow, pull out halfway and try to rub your head against her Gspot, then fuck her again. If she likes her hair pulled, Grip it while fucking her and then kiss her neck, run your teeth between her shoulder and ear. At this point those senses will be on overload. Your goal is to have her climax multiple times. Also, if you have a premature issue, being in control like this will help with that. At some point you’ll be able to fuck harder and in better control.
Ask her what she likes at some point. Be engaging, tell her how much you enjoy how wet she is, tell her how much of a great fuck she is. When fucking her from behind, pull her up toward you, reach down and rub her clit, try kissing her. Change it up. Never assume you can just slip your cock in her ass. Always ask if she likes ass play first. She’ll tell you what she likes and if she doesn’t like it, leave it alone. There is no such thing as “Accidental” anal.
A woman wants to satisfy a man also. When you’re about to come, let her know. If she isn’t ready to finish, she’ll let you know that also. If she wants you to finish, she will be encouraging. Even while wearing a condom, tell her how much you want to come so deep inside of her. This is all part of the mental exhilaration. There are a vast number of techniques. Change it up, be imaginative, each person enjoys different things, keep in mind to fuck her mind first and the rest of her will follow.
When you’re done, many enjoy a few moments of cuddling, but typically once you catch your breath, it’s very acceptable to join the rest of the party to get something to drink and eat. Don’t feel obligated to embrace more after this, other than perhaps cordial hugs later. They may want to find another guy, or perhaps done and want to be with their partner. Ensure to give them some space, but never ignore them. You may just want to be with them again in the future.
Swinging is all about fun and playful connections with like-minded people. Enjoy the discoveries and the new friends you meet along the way.
