The Ultimate Blowjob!

We’ve heard “professionals” say there is no wrong way to give a blowjob. This is true if you don’t care about pleasing the one you’re performing on. Sure, any pair of lips around a cock feels great, but it’s more of what’s behind that mouth that makes it either fantastic, or I’d rather be playing candy crush.

Blow his Mind, His Cock will Follow

Most men are visual, and although the physical sensation may be appealing, the enthusiasm behind your actions make it sensational. A man enjoys her enthusiasm to suck his cock, he loves someone to be cock-hungry for him. Be hungry, devour it, change it up from slow to fast, look into his eyes as you take it to the back of your throat. The sensation he has when he sees you gag, is a huge mind fuck for him.

Caress his balls, suck on his balls, (not to hard). Pay attention to the underside of his penis just below the head. This is the most sensitive part that drives him towards climax. In fact, try a slow blowjob just focusing on this spot, it may take longer, but it too is fantastic.

Without talking too much, paint a picture in his head, “Think of my pulling your cock out of “Becky” and then you come in my mouth? Or tell him you want him to come in your mouth, tell him how much you hunger for his cum, you need it. Whether it’s true or not, lie…but it will turn him on.

Get sloppy, spit on his cock, have saliva drip from your lips to his, make slurping noises while sucking on him, randomly stroke him, then suck him again, change it up some, but always show hunger for him.

We don’t want to push anyone to do more than they can, but if you don’t allow a man to come in your mouth, work him up until he does and pull him out, stroking him through completion.

If you do swallow, then by all means, let him come and keep sucking that cock until he can’t take it anymore.

Role play and play together. Enjoy each other and have fun. And a little tip from a good friend, coconut oil goes quite well with blowjobs. There are many experiences Ryan enjoyed in Our Secret Life series.

Feel free to send messages of your best experiences and we’ll post them.

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