Couples First Swingers Event
Our First Visit to a Swingers Event One of the most nerving experiences a couple can have is when they attend a swinger social, party,
A Swingers
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What if He’s Better
What if another man pleases her better than I do? We’ve seen this in the past and the answer involves putting on a different pair
Your first 4some
There are multiple settings where you could have your first encounter. Some set up a date to meet for dinner, or drinks, then go back
Single Women at a Swinger’s Party
Would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red rose I want to experiment more, now what? You’ll see the term Unicorn out
Single Men in the Swinging Lifestyle
Single men are always in question, but the question is – What kind of single man are you? This may be sensitive for some, but
Swinging or Affairs?
Many men and women are tempted with an affair at some point in their marriage. What if you could have that affair only if your
Erectile Dysfunction and the Lifestyle
I’ll disclose right here that I am not a doctor, and there is a plethora of medical research out there to refer to. I’m bringing
NO Kissing Rule
You may meet a couple with a NO Kissing Rule. Kissing is one of the most important aspects of foreplay. Kissing is unique to everyone.
Foreplay is Genuinely Underrated
Foreplay is probably the most important and desirable aspect of swinging. Sometimes relationships lose that spark that once was. Sometimes a relationship is solid, but
The Art of Fucking
How is this an art? Just stick your cock in her pussy and start thrusting…right? Lol, I usually don’t lol here, but again, we’ve met
What a Girl Wants!
Ok, so if they’re into swinging already, they are adult women, but the way Christina Aguilera sings it brings this title to mind. Many men
How to Approach Swinging with Your Partner?
The very first thing to understand is that swinging as a couple is about you as a couple. It’s an extension of your sexual desires
The Ultimate Blowjob!
We’ve heard “professionals” say there is no wrong way to give a blowjob. This is true if you don’t care about pleasing the one you’re
Tips for Great Oral on Her
The first thing you need to know is that not all labia are the same and not all nerve senses are the same. To be
What are Orgies Like at Swinger’s Parties
When someone thinks of an orgy, they think of many men and women in a pile of lust, a free for all of sex and
Keeping it alive
This blog assumes you’ve already crossed the barrier of exploring the lifestyle at least once and you’ve decided to continue your journey. As newbies, this
How do you start Swinging?
When we started, we googled a lot, found a few dating sites for swingers, and finally went to an off-premise event where there was no
How do you Overcome Potential Jealousy?
This is probably the number one question all couples ask when thinking about the swinging lifestyle and it’s a very important question for both spouses to understand. If you have a strong relationship, and the two of you are comfortable with using toys and even talking about the fantasy of others joining you, then you’re probably more inclined to experiment with a couple than you thought.
Welcome to Our Secret Life
Welcome to Our Secret Life. Who would have known that just over fifteen years ago, we would be writing a book on what then was