Swinging and Drinking

We have now had a few experiences with the always present over-drinker swinger. Our very first couple was one of these. The first couple we had been with was very new to the lifestyle as well and drank vodka like water all night and even during play. A nice buzz is fine and we enjoy that too, but overdrinking is very common as people need the nerve to get naked or play. The side effects of limp dicks, angry streaks or just an unattractive bed manner is too much for most swingers to stomach. “Never let them see you drunk” was a tip i read on a self help calender when I was a teen, and this is oh so true once again in my new lifestyle. You and your sexuality is what you bring to the table, it’s your commodity in the life, and slurred words or inability to be a decent sex partner will get around and all that bravery will be lost in an inability to find people with patience for your drinking. Add us to your Facebook, Twitter or other network!