Always sassy – Meeting for threesomes

Meeting for threesomes I’ve always insist on meeting the couple at the same time, just to make sure they are BOTH into it. Some men want to meet first, to see if I’m OK to let near their wife (or partner), I understand, but I don’t like the idea of the woman not having a say in the arrangements [...] I’ve always insist on meeting the couple at the same time, just to make sure they are BOTH into it. Some men want to meet first, to see if I’m OK to let near their wife (or partner), I understand, but I don’t like the idea of the woman not having a say in the arrangements as well. What do you think? Can you let me know? Read more>>>> __________ I believe the woman should have the final say…period. They can meet separately, then all together, but the woman’s got the final answer. Read more>>>> Local Erotic Dating Personal Ads _________ Both ideas you suggest I’d offer: Let hubby meet me first alone. Smart. Then the next day or two let hubby talk to wife and perhaps second meeting the wife will show up. I’d like a couple that they KNOW ME well enough to TRUST ME. With being alone with the husband or the wife. Not a permanent relationship though as long as the couple still is interested in me. We have been together enough to do a lot of erotic and sometimes kinky things. I know that people get tired of each other after awhile. I totally agree and respect that too, when I told: “Thanks for the past few weeks of fun though we want to try and find new people. Please don’t contact us again.” Always remember: You are a GUEST to the couple. Nothing more and nothing less. Don’t succumb to getting into fights with the man or woman over what to do. You fuck up and that 1 time is enough for them to make it your last time, in other word, they will kick your ass out of their party! I’d love to join a couple being a single guy though I doubt that would ever happen to me. Couple can be guy + girl or guy + guy but I still have NO PERSONAL EXPERIENCE in any and I am open to anything (between two different sexes). I just have read a lot about it and feel I’m emotionally prepared to do that if the day ever comes. That’s the only reason why I post about it. Does using a web cam for the couple so they can see you and see you in action help make it easier for the couple too? (I think so.) Read more>>>> ________ I believe all parties should meet before having a threesome. Why? Because one or all of the parties might not have chemistry, or something else might go awry. Case in point: My current bf wanted to have a threesome with another woman. I found a woman who initially seemed interested in having a threesome with us. We all met at her house. We talked about the threesome, and, lo and behold, the other woman revealed she is a lesbian, that she wanted only me and that she could not possibly disrobe in front of my boyfriend. The threesome never happened because I’m not a lesbian and because my boyfriend said it was a no go. I think it is IMPERATIVE that all parties meet prior to having a threesome. Read more>>>> _________ Well, I am  not too sure if being a female makes a difference but from past experience when I’ve met couples (and I had only met two) I met them both at the same time. Since your a guy it maybe different. While I think its best to meet BOTH… the other guy maybe a little bit possessive or something. Maybe that’s not the right word. But he just wants to see first whose gonna be handling his woman first.  If he likes it… than it goes onto the next phase… of seeing if the woman would be into you too… It is their threesome, their rules. Take it or leave it… _________ Maybe that is the way she wants it… Maybe she trusts her husband’s first judgment of the man. But I would definitely require a second meeting with both because you have a say as to whether or not you find her attractive in person.  A threesome takes takes 3 person! Read more>>>> __________ Never take one for the team so to speak. My husband will always screen the ads. He knows what I like and what I want in a man. Wont meet with anyone unless we have talked several times and even after the first meeting we wont go all the way. We might play a little, but no vaginal penetration, no first date sex. Sometimes it may take 4 or 5 meetings before we will have that threesome. We usually don’t meet single guys, but there are always excepts…  If the guy is super nice, super polite and well hung, we might go for it… ________ You should respond to the  couple as soon as they  email you, and send them a link or info to join your web cam.  They can talk to you, they can see you, so who ever is go for the first meeting will not make different. ________ Related Topics: Why would you try a threesome? Live, naked erotic video chat. Girls & anal sex Do girls like anal sex? Every time I lucky enough to find a girl to have anal sex with, she loves it but when ask in general;  Do girls like anal sex? Their reply is no. Is it maybe  because they are shy? __________ No…. its because for many it is an unpleasant experience. It is painful if [...] Do girls like anal sex? Every time I lucky enough to find a girl to have anal sex with, she loves it but when ask in general;  Do girls like anal sex? Their reply is no. Is it maybe  because they are shy? __________ No…. its because for many it is an unpleasant experience. It is painful if not approached with care and done by someone that knows what he is doing. For many too it it taboo, and deg-raiding. Do you like receiving anal sex? Have you tried it how it is fill like? Before you ask any more women about anal sex, go and get an 8 inch dildo and get your ass filled up with it…..  If for you it is a wonderful experience then you can keep asking women, but if it is painful and unpleasant then you have no right to keep asking a woman for anal sex. Read more>>>> __________ In my experience many girls like it and many others don’t mind it. I think girls who do not like anal sex, might like it,  if they try, but say they no for anal sex, because they can’t get over the fact that hole was created for other then shovel a dick in. They think is disgusting and dirty and they have a point, because it can be really messy.  My partner loves it, bit I have to  really turn her on to let me enter to her golden hole. __________ I am an anal novice …. I have experienced anal sex with three different lovers one much more than the others, not in the same time (wink). I loved all three experiences as the anal orgasm is better and the intensity of the orgasm is greater than vaginal or clitoral. However it need a lot of concentration to have orgasm from anal sex. It was because of my partner large  thick cock. I never felt so fulfilled before.   I got to experience anal which was considerate and careful meeting my every need. Since that I can get enough anal ! Get Laid Tonight – Local Sex Personals! The guy really need to know what he does, otherwise it can be a bloody – messy disaster… My partner was an experienced lover and he prepared me really well.  He made me relaxed and he used a lot of silicon based personal moisturizer. I am sure, anal sex is not for everyone. Not even at the giving end. Read more>>>> __________ Anal sex ok, but it’s nothing for me as a women compared with vaginal sex…  With a man who isn’t gentle,  does not takes his time, or has too large of a penis, anal sex is no  fun at all. __________ Anal sex is very psychological. I think is very traumatic for some ladies, mainly for younger ladies. It can be kind of pleasant for others but the only way for orgasm is spice up anal sex with vaginal and – or clitoral play. __________ It could be that women are shy about admitting they like anal sex. It is considered by many to be kinky or taboo sex. Therefore maybe not easily admitted to as something they like or enjoy for fear others will think they are perverted or strange. But times are changing and i think many more things are openly discussed now than even a few years ago.  So shame of at least discussing it is going away. Others say they don’t like it just because its their ass and asses to them are not for sex. Being shy has nothing to do with it. But I would say in my experience more are just not into it from a comfort level. For them it doesn’t feel good or at least not good enough for them to enjoy an orgasm that way. So they tell you, they don’t like it. There are exceptions, some women enjoy it very much and have explosive orgasms while doing it. If you are a male and enjoy anal sex, then you are lucky when you find someone that enjoys it also. Read more>>>> __________ Anal sex can be good when done right which means she must be very relaxed other wise it is extremely painful. Yes there is the taboo side of it being dirty but get it right and it can be great. With the right man at the right time (that is not every time), I love it but still get paranoid about the mess that can occur. It seems that most guys think anal should be when the woman is on hands and knees but the first lover I managed it with taught me to relax face down in the pillows with my legs together. Once I was relaxed enough he could enter. The experience is exquisite but I still need clitoral stimulation to be able to cum. Just remember that every woman is different and what works for one won’t work for another. Also when doing a girl or woman in her golden hole, your action should be  should be an act of love, or list act of love sex,  not a trophy to be able to say you had anal. Read more>>>> Related Topics: Why would anyone want to have anal sex? Detailed anal sex positions with photos. No strings attached sex What exactly does “no strings attached sex” mean to you? In my open minded brain it means that he’ll never be available to be mine and just only mine on a daily, lifelong basis. But what are the boundaries? Can I give him a token present on his birthday, Christmas, or when I just feel like [...] What exactly does “no strings attached sex” mean to you? In my open minded brain it means that he’ll never be available to be mine and just only mine on a daily, lifelong basis. But what are the boundaries? Can I give him a token present on his birthday, Christmas, or when I just feel like it? Is it fair for me to expect them from him? Is going to dinner before or after a romp in bed being too clingy? Are dates that don’t include sex off limits  (let’s say he wants to meet, but it’s that time of the month)? Read More>>> __________ No string attached sex mean, there is nothing going on between the sex partners. No presents, and no social life any other then sex together.  Well a couple can have a date in a bar or restaurant and have some drink or even diner together before they go somewhere privet. Very often there is not even second time in no string attached sex. Erotic Local Dating Personal Ads ________ Sex without expectation of a serious relationship….  Just because we sweated up the sheets together doesn’t mean that we’re girlfriend and boyfriend… Or that I’m going to leave a “gangsta’s roll” of 20-dollar bills on your bedside table! That is called prostitution, not no string attached sex. Though, I don’t think NSA excludes friendship in my book, others may disagree, but NSA to me is two friends who enjoy each other company whether it be movies, games, or getting naked and humping each others brains out, without expectations of anything more than that. Read More>>> __________ I disagree with the above post, (as you wrote it). No string attached sex mean, there is nothing  else going on between the sex partners, just sex only. What you described above is sex friends or friendship with erotic benefits. _________ No string attached sex means only one night stand, then you go your way he goes his way like you and he never ever have sex together before. If you will do it again, then it will be sex friendship. Read More>>> __________ Well what you need to do is talk to him about the boundaries of your no strings sex relationship. See if he sees it as sex only or as a friendship with benefits. Ask him how he sees it so you can better gauge your actions. Communication is very important even in a no string attached sex. __________ Having dinner before no string attached sex really good. It make people relaxed and they can communicate a little, because communication as someone already stated it above more important then anything else. However demanding that dinner might be a bit clingy. You can communicate anywhere. Dates that don’t include sex? So what if it’s that time of month? Sex ix not limited to vaginal intercourse, in my opinion. And even if it were, let him earn his red wings… Read More>>> __________ Originated from Euroa those terms probably provoke other feelings within me. I have had people explain NSA and Friends with Benefits to me so I know what they mean. For example, If German people on similar dating platforms mean NSA they say “unverbindlich”, that means “no commitment“. To me that’s what it means. I stay away from people who want just that. As soon as I meet somebody more than once I somehow feel attached to him. The more often we meet, the more the whole thing develops into some kind of friendship. And friendship always implies obligations. It doesn’t mean that one day he will have to marry me , but it means that he has to be honest, keep his promises etc. I have expectations and he has too. If you start a NSA affair or relationship to me it means you get all the benefits but, if you chose so, none of the  obligations. I hate that. Read More>>> __________ A man looking for NSA means a big STD risk for me. A man who is in short relations with many women but stays emotionally cold is not mine type of man. However my best friend love NSA. She prefers at all the time get laid by different man. I guess we  and our preferences are not the same. Erotic Local Online Dating Personal Ads __________ NSA to me means – screwing each others brains out, with absolutely NO emotional attachment – NO birthday presents, NO Christmas presents, NO going out to dinner… Tell him beforehand, it’s that time of the month, and  let him decide, if he still wants to have sex – if you do too – Go for it! Men seem to be a whole lot better at having sex with NO emotional attachment than women. It sounds to me like you’re already somewhat emotionally attached… Read More>>> __________ To me, no strings attached sex means with no expectations for anything more, then sex. It might or might not include intercourse. It is open for negotiation.  If it was with someone who was a friend, I would expect it to mean it was a once off deal, or something that might happen regularly until one of us found a significant other. Then I would expect it to stop, with no issues from either party, and our no string sex can turn to be a regular friendship, or end it. If it was someone I met here, or a nightclub, or wherever, I would expect it to mean sex without any expectations of a further relationship. The line would be drawn wherever the shortest side of the line is. If I slept with someone I knew from work, and saw them all the time, and they acted as if it didn’t happen, I’d say giving a gift or something that brought attention to the fact that we’d had something outside of a work relationship, wouldn’t be appropriate. If it was a one night stand, I would expect nothing further. Anything that could appear to be stalking, would be over the line. No strings sex can include going for dinner or out to do whatever thing first, or even after. It just means it’s NOT an on going relationship where it is expected to progress. Read More>>> Related Topics Do you prefer sex with out commitment? No commitment sex related info. 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