Walk up to a guy friend of yours and tell him you’re going to a swinger party. Tell him there will be alot of hot girls and guys, alot of drinking and likely alot of naked people playing softly. Tell him in the dark playroom there will be girls looking to to f*ck him. Tell him the women there are hot and not looking to BS, but more to play with no strings in all kinds of ways.
Now watch him say something along the lines of “sweet” or “nice! Im so in for that!”. Be sure it will be something confirming his belief in his ability to “take care” of women, no problem.
Now, actually bring him there and watch the reality of single men in reality. Men spend so much time training their minds to believe they have amazing skills with the ladies, knowing they will seldom ever by tested on it publically. Single males in the life with little experience have performance problems all the time. Vanilla men when faced with my barely dressed wife dancing on them look like they are about to faint from the pressure. A vanilla is unprepared for the “superpowers” that swingers have. Swingers have the power of no reservations and no fear to flirt openly.
At a recent party we attended there was a newer Unicorn there. She had barely ever played but was not shy. She brought with her a very good looking mid 20′s guy who had never been around swingers before. My wife had eyes for the guy right from the second he walked in, and I for the unicorn that brought him.
After many drinks the new guy hadn’t really said a word, while all around him people were losing their tops, getting out of the hottub, girls dancing on each other, and people like me rubbing on his dates ass to make her miss shots at the pool table.
I ended up without a shirt at one point and it took two girls to get the shirt off new guy who was obviously into the gym. His shirt was back on 5 minutes later when he slipped away to become nervous again. The final straw would be when my wife grabbed him to force a kiss on him and he informed he he couldn’t do that, its not right.
Well needless to say this didn’t go over well with my very hot wife. The unicorn that brought him kisses on girls and is in the adult entertainment biz so shes no prude. She let us know he wouldn’t ever be her date again, and was just a friend. She also contacted us the next day to see when we could get together again so I could pick up where I left off with a MFF perhaps.
The look on this guys face all night said alot about how we’ve changed. Even good looking playboy types in the vanilla world are in complete shock when faced with other people’s wives and complete comfort with nudity and kissing.
So, long story short, vanillas you are warned.
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