Swinging Isn’t Always Sex

Well, we have not been really finding the clicking in bed, and my wife hasn’t been desiring the single males nor an extra girl this past few weeks. We have though still had a great time with friends. We had a few family days with a couple at their house. This is a couple we have had sex with a few times and consider good friends. This is a really stand out couple because they are a true no drama no jealousy match for us.

IN the lifestyle you will learn real fast how awful, damaging and irritating drama can be. Every profile you read or couple you meet will advertise as seeking “disease drug and drama free”. You quickly learn the drama may be the worst of the dreaded D’s. Like high school dating all emotions are really magnified in the lifestyle. When you have a great time it is amazing, but when you have a drama filled or poor night it really can ruin your week.

Our close friends Ryan and Stacy are just about the only zero, zero zero drama couple we have met in the last year. Alot of great people we consider friends are pretty close, but everyone seems to have off nights or quirks that can ruin a night. Some couples have slight jealousy that can surface once in a while only, some have slight craziness or obsession and some have very slight overdrinking problems. All these are fine and not deal breakers since nobody is perfect but Ryan and Stacy never seem to have an off night and both are always as comfortable to spend time with as if we were just us two.

At first Stacy wasn’t exactly my type. She isn’t very flirty and a bit serious at times and this was actually an initial turn off as it is so different from my wife. Ryan and my wife clicked from day one. Ryan is a good dancer, good in bed and well endowed and not shy. He always spends the entire night by my wife’s side which is exactly what she likes in a date.

Over time, a few dates out, Stacy and I began to click with good sex and the fact that her seriousness is also a part of the fact that she never bullshits or mixes words. Honesty in ever way goes a long way for us, and since she sincerely likes us, its a good feeling to know that 100%.

So at the last house party we attended the place was wall to wall good looking couples. Alot of new couples came out that night and the DJ had the entire place jumping. My wife was dancing all night with half a dozen of our friends, guys and girls. My wife had stripped down to lingerie halfway through the night as did most the girls there and the dancefloor was hot. We both had more than usual to drink as we normally pace ourselves to a few drinks. About 1 am rolls around and we notice Ryan and Stacy no longer on the dancefloor. We decide to peek into one room that is set aside for couples to play and there they were naked with him on top of her and her legs in the air. We walked in and sat down on the sofa and said “keep going, we love it”. We watched her moaning for a few minutes when I excused myself for the bathroom. By the time I had returned my wife was in the pile sucking on Stacy’s nipples while Ryan fucked her. I moved in too kissing Stacy and licking her other nipple. Within a few minutes my wife had moved between her legs to lick her warm pussy that had been warmed up and wet. Stacy is notorious for getting wet and squirting alot so my wife was with a wet face quickly. Ryan opened a condom and got behind my wife and started to enter her while i licked his wifes nipples and my wife licked her pussy. This is when half the party decides to walk into our dim lit room and see what was all the noise. A few of the 8 people that entered we wouldn’t have minded. A single guy we knew well, a cute asian couple that Ryan and I both wanted the girl, and a cute latin couple where her husband was not my wife’s taste at all but his 18 year old girlfriend was super hot and wanted girl action with my wife.

All this was more than we wanted for an audience. My wife doesn’t care for an audience generally. We had to stop mid-sweat and go upstairs to find a private room. We did find a small bed and all got naked and exchange oral for the most part. Stacy was pouring wet on my face and my wife was as she likes sucking on Ryan’s cock. My wife has a real skill and weakness for sucking off guys, a great habit IMO.

We played a short while and both girls were really hating the tiny squeeky bed, and I think we all knew we had one too many that night. This would be the first night we called it a night mid-f*ucking. We had an hour or so of great foreplay and Stacy got a nice wet cum or two, but we are all friends so much that we have nothing to prove, its just great deviant fun with good friends.

We decided that getting 3am breakfast is better than fucking this night, and the next day we all four agreed we had an amzing time with people that make you as comfortable as having been alone with just my wife.

The friends that you have nothing left to hide from are the best kind, and also something only swinging can give you.

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  1. jnost161 says:

    @oursecretlife Yeah it deff all depends on how you are right now i would completely agree.

  2. catman72 says:

    @oursecretlife if, unlike your friends in college, you keep clean, smell good, shave often,wash your clothes and keep a normal diest – you WILL have a girlfriend.it’s true that you will have a girlfriend anyhow,but if you do all the above – your girlfriend will be the kind who does too…:-)

  3. @oursecretlife i dont trust the magic 8ball. iphone or not. no way. if u want a girlfriend u can get one. do wat u have to do and be yourself.

  4. PFplusW says:

    @oursecretlife No way, the 8ball is sacred, it’s never gonna happen! :)

  5. danielyeh says:

    @oursecretlife @northsiderollers what if “yourself” is a complete loser and waste of life?

  6. @oursecretlife @danielyeh dont ever think that of yourself or any one else. wen some one is considerded a “loser” maybe b/c other people said that to him or her and everyone else follows it. i try to give everyone a chance and get to know them :)

  7. XUrbanBellaX says:

    @oursecretlife Keep shaking it! lol ;)

  8. danielyeh says:

    @oursecretlife @northsiderollers i’m all about individuality and whatever but lets face it. if there is one thing you can work on its yourself. before trying to find excuses for why this didn’t happen for you, you should evaluate yourself

  9. @oursecretlife @danielyeh ummm i was just helpin out whoever was askin the question on this video.

  10. @oursecretlife dont rush it. if your girl is out there one way or the other she will come into your life when fate is ready to bring her to you

  11. RRBvampgrl says:

    @oursecretlife Where are the newer cards? I liked the black ones…. :(

  12. Marisan555 says:

    @oursecretlife did anyone notice in the “promotional considertion” part….is says “Also, dan and jennifer love puppies?” hahahaha i never noticed that before. it made me laugh

  13. hpfan124 says:

    @oursecretlife @Marisan555 yeah i’ve noticed that

  14. RENEDU2 says:

    @oursecretlife no you will choke your chiken all your life!

  15. aussiebear22 says:

    @oursecretlife “Is there potential i will have a girlfriend in college?” => That’s up to you. Dan and Jenn cannot help you. YOU are responsible for your life, your happiness, and your success.

  16. DanAndJenn says:

    @oursecretlife @RRBvampgrl the new cards are totally coming! in fact got them last week, and earlier this week we filmed 20 video segments with them! first 1 WITH THE NEW CARDS should be live on Monday! Thanks!!

  17. RRBvampgrl says:

    @oursecretlife @DanAndJenn Oh, okay. Awesome! Can’t wiat to see them! BTW, love you guys and your videos! <3

  18. axelsaulean says:

    @oursecretlife having a girlfriend during school is stressful and not as rewarding but that’s just me. i’d prefer to wait until the appropriate age to go on and have sex 18 more or less, prob less (17). so dude don’t stress… too much, just a bit :D

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