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Lack of sex in a marriage. What will happen? What do you think about sex less marriages? Or not enough sex in a marriage…. Do you think lack of sex in a marriage leads to breaking up the relationship? Erotic Adult Dating Personal Ads Sex and money are the two most common reasons why relationships fall apart. So my answer is Yes. Read more>>> [...] What do you think about sex less marriages? Or not enough sex in a marriage…. Do you think lack of sex in a marriage leads to breaking up the relationship? Erotic Adult Dating Personal Ads Sex and money are the two most common reasons why relationships fall apart. So my answer is Yes. Read more>>> _________ If a person is not getting what they need in a marriage and cannot find it while still being married, then it is time to change that. It’s a fact that most women don’t want to take the chance of having an affair with a married man, for the simple reason that they want to have him completely for themselves and not share him with another woman. Quite understandable. I think the optimal affair is when both married partners know that their partner is having an affair with someone else and getting what they need there, but still love each other too. Love and sex can be and should be separated. I feel that polyamory and polyandry are fine as long as the people don’t do things behind their partners backs. However it would be better for both, if they play together. Also women often looking for casual sex partner outside of their marriage, because their husband can not fulfill their sexual needs. After few years marital sex can get flat, boring, routine … and women say that their hubby is not a good sex partner… Read more>>> What makes a man a great sex partner? A lot of guys think that a bigger penis and long erection, or bigger load…  is all what they need to being a good sex partner.  Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great sex partner is, but most would like to become one. So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a man after the first time they made out? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women? Many, women, even at home in the family bed,  like to be listened to.  They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed lead to great orgasm! Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him. What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly like women, they know how to tread a women and they know how to make a women feel special.  That makes a big difference. The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends.  A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like. Read more>>> Also a man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good.  So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way.  It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all. It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women. And of course, a great lover or a great sex partner knows about the female body.  He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind.  He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women. He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make.  He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs.  If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately. A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her.  He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved. Unfortunately most men do. Most men not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off. Next time try listening to your lady.  I mean  really listening.  Talk with her, get to really know her.  Enjoy her company, don’t focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later on.  If you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you – and that is the most important first step toward being a great sex partner. You can read everything about sex and great sex partner at next>>> Detailed Sex Related Info with Sex Tips – Sex Position Videos For me YES! For me nothing is more important in my marriage then a sex. Great sex, great marriage… Lack of sex destroys healthy relationships. Read more>>> _________ What about having a relationship based on emotional intimacy over a sexual one? If the emotional bond is there, I think lack of sex, doesn’t necessarily mean it will always lead to a break up. Although, if emotional intimacy is lacking in addition to a physical one, I feel there is more of a chance of breaking up as opposed to just a relationship that just merely lacks sex… Maybe its just me, but sometimes i think sex is over rated when it comes to being the one thing that seems to be the essential part of having two people stick together. The guy I’m with, he knows a lot about me and my past and he’s accepting of it all.  And a part of me really enjoys the fact that he remains with me… he’s not looking at me, what can I offer him sex wise, but he likes me for other aspects of myself other than whats between my legs. Sure, he may not offer me everything I need or want, but I find his emotional support means far more important to me than him providing me with a sex life…  I am fairly attractive women and I can find great sex partner very easily, but supporting, loving man, is not that simple to find. Read more>>> Erotic Dating Video Personal Ads About the above post. If you are getting great sex from somebody else, then you lovely relationship already in the ditch… special if you are looking that great sex behind your partner. If you are here as a couple and do things together, then that is a different story. Since sex is the expression of that intimate relationship and to not have it, to me, means there is no connection. I am not married nor have I ever been, but I just can’t see why you want to make a life long commitment to someone and not touch them or be touched by them. _________ Sure, sex can be seen as an expression of an intimate relationship, but so can  an emotional one. And who says you need to have sex in order to receive a humans touch…  There are more ways to receive human contact than just merely having sex…  I connect more on an emotional level, feel a lot more closer with the guy I’m with, than any other guy I’ve chosen to have sex with from here in the first place… Why should you play with her clitoris… and how? Related Topics: Squirter Women Consistent squirting. I’m a squirter, found that out via masturbating! I was wondering why do I squirt one time having sex with someone then when I have sex with the same partner or with different different partner, but in the same same sex position, I don’t squirt?? Anyone else have this happen? Read More>>> __________ [...] Consistent squirting. I’m a squirter, found that out via masturbating! I was wondering why do I squirt one time having sex with someone then when I have sex with the same partner or with different different partner, but in the same same sex position, I don’t squirt?? Anyone else have this happen? Read More>>> __________ Maybe it is because you know your body better then your lovers. Try talking more to your men and let them know what you like and want and then maybe the water works will come back. Just a personal note squirting is hot and very sexy! _________ That happens to me as well. Those who have made me squirt can do it consistently, but there are others who haven’t been able to make it happen at all even with guidance. It all depends on your partners ability to find your spot & with you relaxing yourself enough to let go & let it flow. Read More>>> My wife is a squirter too and as inconsistent as you. In my wife’s case it’s more about how erotic the situation is rather than what is happening! _________ I don’t squirt so I can’t say first hand. I would think it has something to do with your state of mind at the time. Maybe you’re not as relaxed as you are when your masturbating. Sometimes if you try to do anything to hard it just makes it more difficult. Read More>>> _________ It is different every time. Sometimes I find that once a man gets me really squirting, they expect it every time, that puts pressure on me to squirt and makes it harder. I also find that being slightly dehydrated makes it harder too. _________ I’m not a squirter, so I can’t answer your question. I didn’t even know such a thing existed until my husband tried to get me interested in porn some years back and that was one of the subjects. Squirt queens, or some such thing was that porn movies name. I never really understood how it happens. Maybe, like fre2play says, it has to do with your state of mind and how excited and therefore how wet you get as you masturbate. Read More>>> ________ I find it depends on many things… My mood, degree of arousal. My partner penis size and his knowledge, etc. I just enjoy it when it happens!!! And of course the guys enjoy even more! Read More>>> ________ The most frustrating is when I don’t want to squirt and it happens… Like at home at night in our bed. I don’t wanna sleep on THAT wet spot! So I need to change the bed shit, and it usually happens when the bed is clean. I think it is something in my brain. With me it has to do with how hydrated I am… less hydrated, less squirting… and alcohol causes less volume too. So when I changed the bed shits, then I drink before I go to sleep. My husband don’t like to touch me if I drink… so it give me a day or two on hand, but after that, I will get that bed really wet… Read More>>> Related Topics: How to turn you lady sex partner on How can any men become a perfect sex partner Are you want to be a sex GOD Mouse here for Related Links Adult Singles Add us to your Facebook, Twitter or other network!