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Recreational sex with another couple I need advice, tips, any help on how to ask my partner to experiment with another couple. Seriously I need advice on how to ask my girlfriend to participate in some hot sexual activities with other couples, women or men without sounding like a prude or an ass. She only mentions adding an addition to [...] I need advice, tips, any help on how to ask my partner to experiment with another couple. Seriously I need advice on how to ask my girlfriend to participate in some hot sexual activities with other couples, women or men without sounding like a prude or an ass. She only mentions adding an addition to the bedroom when she is drinking. But that tells me that she has thought about it. Any ideas on how to bring this to reality? Read more>>> _________ Sometimes when people drink, they turn to be more open, they might talk more. It might not be your girlfriend, it might be the alcohol who talks from her. The alcohol changes many people personality, some of the turn to really friendly, some others very aggressive, etc. In your case, your girlfriend is talking about her fantasy when she is under the effect of alcohol. Everybody have erotic fantasy, but some people never say anything about anybody, some others try to make it reality. I don’t think drunken or half drunken talk from your lady mean anything. She just might try to be somebody else when she had more drink that she can handle…. You need to talk about this with her when she is sober… and the best time is during intercourse, when she is close to have an orgasm… Read more>>> Erotic Local Sex Dating Personal Ads _________ I have found that some women although not every women, have a tendency to hint at a fantasy or two without taking any ownership of the idea or making any effort to make it happen. This seems like a way of protecting themselves from accusations of being a slut or oversexed, which is a tragic risk women still face in our society. ________ I believe that more women think about and fantasize about sexual adventures with others then their spouse, than actually do anything about it. When alcohol is involved… inhibitions go out the window and you can blame anything on the “I was drunk” excuse. Confidence in one’s sexuality leads to exploration. Maybe you could ask her about her fantasies and let her know you remember her drunken words and let her know you would like to make them come true. She may reciprocate… Ya man, never know. Give it a try! Read more>>> _________ What I find strange and it happens a lot, is the number of people who come on here and, ask total strangers for advice on asking their partners on sexual matters such as this. It is strange, but I understand, because this forum’s advice line was created for this reason, plus easy to ask a question with out anybody know who you are. That is why the Internet is changed the erotic dating world! At the end of the day, you should be able to discuss anything with her and she should be comfortable enough to answer you in an adult way. Just ask her and hopefully, she will answer you. Just respect her decision, even if it’s not the answer you want. Forcing the issue will alienate her from you. Read more>>> _________ The next time you are having sex flirt with the question of inviting another man to join you two. See how she reacts. If she did not say no way… and did not jump up and run a way, then you just need to talk a little more… But be careful, it might happen she run a way and then you just get into yourself a big trouble. Read more>>> _________ Sit down over a glass of wine and say these words: “What do you say we experiment with another couple“. There is two words what she can say.. or she can ask you back? How do you think? ++++++++++ Related  Topics: Recreational sex. How do I introduce my wife to the casual sex or swingers lifestyle? Swinging is not something like we need to do.. I just want to have some three or moresomes.  I just want to see her while she makes out with other men. It sound very erotic… How do you introduce your threesome idea to your mate? Threesome sex tips for women Threesome sex tips for men (who want to get started) Monogamous casual sex relationship Is it possible to find someone here to have long term monogamous, casual sex relationship? I mean get together once or twice a week, and have some erotic fun, include, intercourse, oral sex or what ever it take… After he goes his way, I go my way, until the next meeting. No love, no commitment, [...] Is it possible to find someone here to have long term monogamous, casual sex relationship? I mean get together once or twice a week, and have some erotic fun, include, intercourse, oral sex or what ever it take… After he goes his way, I go my way, until the next meeting. No love, no commitment, just hard core sex. Of course we need to find each other attractive, otherwise we would not enjoy it. People put these labels:  Friends with benefits and  no strings attached sex. I’m very confused about it. And pretty much always they mention that having this type of relationships they were seeing other people. So my question is: Is it possible to have long term sexual relationships (sex only) without seeing other people for casual sex? I know it sound complicated… and confusing. How can I explain? I want a man who do not fuck everyone who is available. I want him to fuck me only and if he is married, of course he need to serve his wife sexual needs too. Is it possible to find a man and develop a sex relationship like this? Read more>>> ________ Oh yeah baby! Email me and I will bang you years to come. I am not a sex god, but fairly good sex partner… Erotic Adult Dating Personal Ads ________ If you are fortunate enough to meet a truly genuine person (they do exist);  Sure! Just don’t hope for a miracle. Sounds pretty bleak, however the harsh reality. A lot of fakes, and liars. Maybe their wife out of town and they just want to get a one night stand. You never trust a man, if you talk about no commitmetn sex… You want to get fucked and they want to fuck you… To get you, they will tell you what you want to hear, and as soon as their wife is back home… they will be gone. I see on your age, you are not a teen girl, and you are naive like one… Read more>>> _________ I tried it once and it ended very badly. Don’t get your heart attached to people here. They are 99% of the time logging on as soon as you leave. I won’t say it’s impossible, but I would keep that pretty little guard up. Keep it in your mind, this is an erotic dating and swingers sex website. Swingers love to have sex often with multiply sex partners. They are everything but not monogamous, casual sex partners… Actually I never heard a word combination like this: Monogamous, casual sex partner, but I understand what you try to do here. Maybe your hubby is old, or he have some healthy issue and he can not make you “happy” sexually, but you do not want to leave him, instead you want a man, who can and will “do you” on a regular basics. If something is like this is in your mind, then yes, it is possible, but it wont happen overnight… You might have give an access to your pussy for a lot of men, before you will find one, who do not want to have sex with anyone else, just only with you… Read more>>> _________ I am a man and I really do not mind to play with you, but years to come… Hard to say. I’d rather find a serious relationship, but if it comes down to finding a partner for more than a night. So if it years to come I would like it to be an exclusive partnership so I / we can really take our time getting to know each other in many different ways. A far as one-nighties go, no thanks! I want to be able to know my partner so that each succeeding time we meet up, there is something worth talking about, something from our last tryst that enables me to get a better handle on how best to please her as my lover, and I want a reason besides sex alone to look forward to seeing her again. For me, a FWB situation needs to be exclusive and meaningful in more than a sexual way. FWB is something that both partners need to discuss openly and come to solid acceptance of terms, whatever they may be. No strings attached ex is nice, but is just too sterile for my age and tastes. I want more, period. _________ That’s right, as I wrote it above I’m looking for sexual relationships, not friendship, not pen pals, no cam sex, no online sex, no boyfriend and not husband. So, just because it’s a sex site, or swingers sex web site it’s completely imposable to have it with one partner only? Read more>>> _________ No Milashka. there is nothing impossible if we talking about sex here. But as too good to your baby wrote it, it wont happen overnight… ________ It has happen before, search the archives for success stories. It happened with me too. I just can  not, and do not walk out from my marriage and my husband know I have someone on the site, and he is okay with this. He know I have needs that he can not fulfill, but we still love each other. Love and sex is two different things. Anyway, I have applied what I’ve learned from DatingSensations to all to my erotic dating and have met men on this websites that have led to a 3 year long sex relationships and one 1 year long in the last 6 years. The 1 year long is presently on going… We consider ourselves friends for the public and virtually we are fuck buddy. You can call it “dating exclusively” for sex. It is what you make of it. I’m really hoping for a longer term sex relationship, but it takes time to know people. Read more>>> Related Topics: The differences between swingers sex & casual sex Friends and dating. What about friends and erotic dating? Couple with Unicorn woman for Casual Sex My fiance and I are into casual sex. I guess I can say, we are swingers, but we are not into full swap. She’s a little curious, and hasn’t done a whole lot with other women. She’s kissed a couple but that’s it, she would like to try more, but is a little shy. I [...] My fiance and I are into casual sex. I guess I can say, we are swingers, but we are not into full swap. She’s a little curious, and hasn’t done a whole lot with other women. She’s kissed a couple but that’s it, she would like to try more, but is a little shy. I told her that we could come on here and talk to a few people and see what happens. She wants the girls to know that this would be her first time and may not know fully what to expect. We had a silver membership and that did not happen and now just let it be standard membership. We have had several people email us but it goes nowhere and we get a lot of views on our profile. And before you say it, I do not want to have sex with two girls. I have to say, I do not want to screw anyone wife, girlfriend, etc. I do not want to fuck any other women, just only my fiance, that is why I wrote at above, we are not into full partner swap. Is here any bi couriers woman, or a couple with bi curious woman, maybe a lesbian woman, play with couples…? Does anyone ever really meet up? Read more>>> Swingers Sex Personal Ads People meet up all the time, but it does take time to get comfortable with each other and meet. Plus you are looking for something that is very hard to find. There aren’t that many single women who play with couples. You are probably competing with hundreds of other couples for each single woman who even shows an interest in couples. Much more better option, if you looking for “soft swing” couples with bi woman, and let the ladies play alone.  Or if you want to watch them, then the other guy will watch your lady too. Read more>>> _________ Yes, people do follow through and meet up! I can definitely understand your fiance shyness… Best of luck to you! Read more>>> _________ Yes! Lots of people meet up on here. If your fiance is uncertain, maybe get a silver or gold membership so she can contact a woman that interest her. If she is too shy to send someone and email then she is too shy to be meeting people. If she really wants it she will make it happen. Read more>>> _________ We are a couple and we meet up often. We do not have sex every time but we meet up with anybody that interests us to see if we are a good match for fun times. And if there is a chemistry, we go somewhere privet and try to have fun… Read more>>> _________ I definitely have and think a lot of people out there will.  The problem is the percentage of “real people” vs. creepers that like getting off by talking about things. Just be selective and patient. _________ Well she’s very hot! She should consider men! Honestly, you might work on the profile a little or just let her set up her own. Read more>>> _________ I agree. Single women (also called Unicorns) are hard to find. I’ve had several conversations but none ever went anywhere. My wife and I are real. When we make a date, whether it be dinner or a play date, unless there are extreme circumstances (e.g. not feeling well, sitter cancels, etc), we show up to meet people. Some people are interested but may need to feel comfortable before doing so. A good ice breaker we’ve found, is to to chat on an IM program so you can chat and learn about each other, what your preferences are, what kind of rules you have, and even exchange pictures. There are a lot of fake profiles here, as the above post said, they just want to get off via talking about it. So beware of that too! Read more>>> _________ Yes. Serious people don’t advertise on the Advice Line. They have paid memberships and put their preferences and experiences in their profiles. And then they do sophisticated searches for other members who match their own experiences and preferences and they read their profiles. Then they send out lots of emails. You can’t do very much of this with a Standard account unless you are an individual woman with some skills for getting men or others to write to you. Read more>>> _________ Yes we have had a paid membership, longer then 2 years… and it got us no where and like my boyfriend said it, for now we just have the standard membership. We have had to cut back because of the economy on some luxury items. And for the dirty minded men, mo my fiance does not get to fuck other women. That is his choice, he he doesn’t want it. My pussy enough for him…. We are on her for my need, and that is a woman like me.  Also I don’t need another dick I got a pretty good one I can fuck anytime I want it. We are on here so I can experiment with my bi-curiosity. We have not been that active on here for a while because of work and other activities. Now we have some extra time and trying are luck again. We actually go to swinger parties and everything but men don’t get it…I DON’T WANT YOU. I want to play with women. We don’t care if the woman is single or in a relationship, as long as the guy does not touch me we are good. Egnwu, we were just asking a question and you  jump down on our throat…. As I see your profile, we were longer paid members, then you are a member… So thanks for your advise, I am appreciate your understanding. 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