It is important to note that while there is something for everyone, there is alot of sites for nobody as well.

We have experience working with and being members on a large number of websites. Each of them are ideal for a certain type of swinger crowd.

AFF or Adult Friend Finder is one of the best known site, thanks to alot of “marketing” it has become a super well exposed brand.

We have been members of Aff.com for a number of years. We started there because it is where inexperienced swingers go before they learn more about the lifestyle. We also returned there because it does have a huge member base if you are looking for certain things. If you want “off the radar” swingers, newbies, freaks and of course single men who are more horny than lifestyle this is a good place to shop.

Adultfriendfinder.com will give you access to a barrage of penis pictures and single guys wanting to “get laid”. I have stated before that guys out to “get laid” are not swingers. Single males in the lifestyle are very different in their demeanor, approach and understanding of how to be a friend in the lifestyle as a single male.

AFF also brings a good amount of something different if you are like us and want those off the radar swingers who don’t exist on other sites and don’t attend parties and swinger events. You can find the closet swingers on AFF for sure.

SLS or www.SwingLifeStyle.com is one of the other “big ones” online for meeting experienced couples. SLS is highly involved in the lifestle events, community and promoting. You will find SLS to have a 1990′s quality website, not much in the way of modern website features, but it does have the most important features of a huge, huge client base of members. We have never been a paying member on SLS, free members only so we did not explore all it’s features. We never found the need for a membership there in the area we lived.

SDC.com or the Swing Dating Community is one of the sites you could probally start out on as a new swinger. You would be happy to know it is so full and well rounded with events and large number of profiles that you could stay there long into your experiences as well. SDC is very connected in the southeast with running events and meet and greets so you get a good handle of whats going on as well. With sites like AFF.com you do not get events to attend and the sense of community on a true swingers website like SDC.com provides. This is one site we are actively a member on and will likely always be.

Playfulswingers.com is one we had been a member of for a short time when we lived in Atlanta and Raleigh. This site is generally based from Virginia to Tampa on the east coast and provides alot of real couples and info on events. Playfulswingers is associated with AAHZ party events and hotel takeovers and promotes them through there. We have attended 2 of these events and they are excellent fun. If you do not get to travle to the best clubs in Atlanta and Miami then these AAHZ events are about as good as you can get. This site doesnt have too many single and is almost all real couples ages 28-45 that are experienced in the lifestyle. This site has recently BECOME FREE as well. We reccomend you go and sign up there and meet alot of the established regulars, a very friendly community style site.

MVClub.com is the site in conjnction with the Miami Velvet Swingers Club. Membership on MVClub.com is about the same price as SDC or AFF but at the same time gets you huge discounts on Miami Velvet admission prices year round. Miami Velvet also hosts alot of SDC meet and greets and events. There is at the very least 2 of these per month at Velvet, which are great low cost and top quality crowds and parties. This is another site we have been members of on and off, and if you are anywhere in Florida from Tampa to Miami you should be a member on this site. MVClub isnt the most modern site of this group but it does have alot of smart features others don’t. MVClub.com is the only one weve seen that tells you someone is currently reading your profile, which in turn makes you read theirs, and in real time you are meeting in essence. This is a super smart feature, simple and smart. You can also see who is attending the parties on this site, previewing the nights crowd at the club you all meet up at later is a priceless idea. With the amazing admission discounts this is a must signup website for a Florida area swinger couple.

Facebook? Yes Facebook. This has slowly and surely been beating the others into the ground. Facebook has created an ideal setting for swingers to meet. You can go anonymously to a swingers board, LIKE join ar comment and see a huge list of swingers right on that wall. More and more swinging communities have been starting a second anonymous facebook account for the reason of being able to secretly socialize with their friends and peers. So newbies, this is another free way for you to start meeting people safely at home.

Come join us for a special night of deviant fun as we continue to celebrate the opening of our new downstairs play space! We have added group and private spaces for play, as well as more fun and kinky equipment and toys. And here’s the best part…

***ALL MEMBER COUPLES WILL BE ADMITTED FREE BEFORE 10:00!***

After 10:00 admission is only $30 per couple. Admission for single males is $60 before 1:30am, and $40 afterward. And of course, our single female members are always admitted free

If you like sexy kink, fun, dancing, fetish, bdsm, swinging, or any and all of the above, this party is for you!

Bring your toys, and enjoy our own, including our endless-orgasm-producing Sybian!

When? Friday the 13th, 2011 !!

What time? 9:00pm – 5:00am

Where? Studio Eris. 255 Ottley Drive NE, Atlanta 30324. (Directions at www.FleshAndFetishBall.com ) Inside the Avatar Studios Building.

How much? See above.

Who is invited? ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE (21 and up, of course!) You don’t need an invitation…you just need to get out of the house and be ready to party!

Who is coming? Swingers, fetishers, BDSM players, mainstream party people, hot DJ’s, entertainers a host of other sexy, naughty and decadent partiers ready to cut loose and get freaky!

This nights special attractions include:

* Free parking
* Free snacks, sodas and juices
* Free re-entry to the building
* Featured DJ spinning great dance tunes all night long
* Fully equipped dungeon for BDSM play
* Our new world famous Sybian machine!
* The sexiest, kinkiest and most diverse crowd in Atlanta

Stay tuned for more updates and info, and as always, you can visit our websites for current information and all the juicy details…

http://www.FleshandFetishBall.com

http://www.SwingingAtlanta.com

You can also call Brent at 770-861-3990.

SEE Y’ALL AT THE BALL ON FRIDAY May 13th!

We have alot of cute vanilla friends, made all the cuter because of their off-limits status. There is clearly something sexier and more erotic about  the look of surprise and longing on the face of a vanilla friend being exposed for the first time. There is even more fun to be found in being the one holding their hand, then their towel .

Most full swap couples in the lifestyle have at very least dabbled with the concept of converting a friend or two they know. A friend at work, old friend you always liked or even that next door neighbor or family friend that always seemed a bit more exciting than most.

While there is a slight risk in the fact that you “can never UNtell” someone your lifestyle secret, we all also know when and who to break it to. We all have friends that are not quite vanilla and we know they would be open or interested in being a part of our fun.

Add to all this the fact that most swingers are very cordial and helpful in helping new couoples or “tire-kickers” who want to learn more. We have all been the new couple, latched to the wall, intimidated or just nervous of how things work and not wanting to overstep our bounds.

For this fact, most couples and experienced swingers are more than happy to escort you to a new club, a house party or simply sit and have drinks till 3AM talking about experiences and letting you learn a safe and easy way.

Keep in mind, we are staring at you like a tasty sandwich and hoping you will scream “LETS GO”, but sitting patiently all the same and being horny and helpful in one motion.

So when they person or couple says, “lets goto the club together”, “lets ride with you to that party you talked about”.

Now what do you do?

Of course, most of us say, “great idea”. We start getting ideas of a hot night with fresh meat and a great sexual experience with someone on their first time. Most of us say yes and go along with this fantasy that seldom turns out this way.

So my advice to you now is, don’t throw away a great party or that Saturday babysitter you worked so hard to get. While helping others learn and break-in is a great idea, this will almost never turn out as described in your fantasy talk with your wife.

We have found ourself at clubs on 3 or 4 occasions with the “new – dont know anyone” semi-vanilla couple or person attached to our hip. Every one of these have been cute for awhile then frustrating later when old friends start dancing with us and the party gets a bit hot and we need to be constantly good hosts.

This is like having a big party in your home. You think wow this will be great, you make all the decisions, set up everything, pick the music, but in the end it becomes you working while everyone else is in party-mode and having more fun than you.

Have that person over to your house for something more private and don’t waste that babysitter. Have that person drive to the club or party seperately and best yet get them a date or a “stunt-couple” so you are sure they have someone other than JUST you to talk with all night.

We have done this on a few occasions, we have everytime woke up the next day already planning our next party without any baggage. Without going into detail, we found ourselves standing and talking to them all night being courteous.

We essentially found ourselves reduced to vanillas in an attempt to help other not be.

And on the few occasions that we said “they’ll be fine” and went ahead, got naked got wild or just pursued couples we liked on our own for a bit, we tend to wake up the next day feeling guilty about their discomfort the night before.

It is certainly true it depends on the vanilla, if they are bold and good with people to begin with. They need to understand that they make their own fun. It is always a bit ackward as they learn about boundries and learn how and when it’s ok to do what. When that agressive leo male comes up and throws and arm around her or dives in for a kiss, these are the few surprises they need to not be surprised by.

Once they learn how it is different to be at a lifestyle party they will learn how to socialize without worry, unfortunately it tends to take a lifestyle couple having a PG-13 night of setting an example before they can get to this point.

So, in short, dont throw away that great party on breaking someone in. Best to lead them to water, teach them by stories at your place alone and let them fend for themselves at that big party.

It may sound a bit insensitive, but babysitters and great parties are not infinite and the vanilla-sitting is sure to waste one of each.

“We started with just voyerism. Then we agreed on a couple and we had our first soft swap. I have to admit that I have been insecure at times in between. I have cornered Miguel and asked him if he would still want me if I said I never wanted to swing again. He replies very sincerely that he would still want me, that he will always want me.

Something about that, that he is so damned attentive. He is still always making sure that I had fun, that it was good for me. I know alot of guys think they do that. Really? Have you watched her pleasure herself and taken mental notes on how to do it better yourself? Do you tell her she is so sexy every single day, do you make her feel like the sexiest bitch on the planet? Are you only open to the idea of a girl/girl situation? She is with a guy for a reason, she probably loves the cock and may even prefer it. Be open to the idea of a single guy or another couple, so she can really get off too. I know I am coming to realize I am more of a boobs lesbian than a bi-girl. It all depends on the girl, really.

If you have cheated in the past (in this relationship), or are trying to get her to let you fuck her friends this is probably not for you. I have close girlfirends that know about my lifestyle but i do not play with them, for me it would be too weird. If you worked on pleasing her more, she would want more sex. If you say you are open to a man pleasing your wife, really be into it. You will get better sex, I promise you. It will be “thank you” sex, that blows your fucking mind! She would want to make to you feel as good as you make her feel.”

http://www.fox4now.com/story/14557823/swfl-swingers-scene

The writing staff took their zero experience in the subject, interviewed a doctor with zero experience in the subject and scared some neighbors with their stories of
“sexual deviants creeping in their rooms at night to steal their children”.

They even had the hidden face swinger telling all, and gasping neighbor showing the appropriate shock.

The references to being forced underground sound very nazi-esque.

I have before compared swinging to homosexuality in that it is a choice/or natural depending on you beliefs, it harms nobody and it is a personal decision and life choice. I can’t think of anything more genetic or natural than every persons desire for sex and fantasy.

I still am left not knowing why hate towards the gay community is a hate crime, but hate towards a equally or far more natural personal lifestyle like swinging is allowed and encouraged?

Perhaps we need some lobbyists?

A strange double standard. And not a knock on my gay friends throughout life, and the many bisexual women in the lifestyle itself.

FOX 4 put their expert reporting mind of Liza Fernandez on the case, who’s title is that of “reporter” and also “weekend meteorologist”, clearly an expert in reporting such social issues.

The meat of the story was spent interviewing Dr. Krista DeWelde a sociologist.

They were very intent on trying to create such a thing as an expert on swinging that has unfortunately never been one, seen one, partied with one or socialized with them as a group.

FOX 4 gave us lots of ambient camera shots of her diploma and the books she has apparently written.

The expert Dr. Krista DeWelde, the one with zero related experience, went on to explain:

“So there are jealous feelings that come with imagining, seeing, experiencing your partner with another person”.

This single line preoves she has zero knowledge of the topics she claims to be a convenient expert on.

These jealous feeling from seeing and imagining your partner are far more dulled and extinct in experienced swingers, This jealousy is the exact thing that defines non swingers.

Swinging isn’t about the sex alone, it is about the comfort and complete open frankness you get to enjoy everyday.

Infidelity and fear of infidelity are the exact opposite of what swinging represents. Sexual relations without consent is the exact opposite of sex with consent and mutual appreciation.

In cheating and the fear it creates in weak relationship swinging and non swinging it is the breech of trust that is the offense not the act itself.

In the “lifestyle” there is the act with no breach of trust. In the non swinging world, everyday your boyfriend, husband and girlfriend’s eyes scan other people, coworkers and sexy strangers. All this time they never share their feeling or what they inside would feel as an indiscretion.

Secrets breach trust, and in the lifestyle the most hidden secrets of the “real world” are not secrets. My partner and I share every thought, the most natural ones we all have, thoughts of sex, fantasy and desire.

I have heard swinging described in this way and it can serve as a lesson for the metoerologist, and non swinger sociologist that seem intent on faking expertise on this matter.

Jealousy, fear of breached trust and worry over your partners honesty are perhaps the most poisonous things that can exist in a relationship. Weve all been a part of a relationship in our youth where we thought perhaps it was happening to us and it overtakes you mind and can not be removed once in place.

These jealous feeling are poison to the ability to trust.

Now in swinging we all had slight pangs of jealousy the first few times, then a little everytime your scenerio or playtime progressed to new milestones.

We took that jealousy like a small tase of the poison that haunts non swingers. Thenext day we woke up together, arroused, excited and feeling like kids. More importantly, we woke up still ok, in love and “the sky didn’t fall”. What most non swinging couples consider the most horrible thing they could ever imagine in their mind, we faced that fear and it didn’t really hurt. We learned that for the most part it was fun and i learned the next day my wife loves me and nothing at all can dent that. The greatest fear of non swingers bounced off our relationship like a rubber ball, without even a mark.

Now as a few years passed, we played alone, with singles, friends and built relationship of all natures. We upped the dose as we desired more or got more comfortable with the idea that nothing at all can get between us and the “sky will never fall”.

And now today here we are, immune to the worst poison all “vanilla” non swingers fear, Jeaoulsy, infidelity, our partners desiring others sexually and telling our partner that we do too.

What fun and exciting things and freedoms can destroy the strongest 30 year non-swinging marriage in 5 minutes, can never even make us skip a beat.

And lastly, my parting advice to Dr. Krista DeWelde, aside from come to a club and let me change your mind . Is that there are many things in life one can’t understand without experiencing it. The first night my wife and I ever played and began in the lifestyle with both feet in, we learned one lesson, which was that there is no way to be prepared for the experience.

No person outside the lifestyle can anticipate or know what to expect without trying it. Like no other thing I have done in my life, it was a change of mindset and programming in place for a lifetime.

See the story here if you like
http://www.fox4now.com/story/14557823/swfl-swingers-scene

Also, turned on to this story by Rebecca Ammon at rebeccaammon.com, so go read her now.

“Fake accounts are a violation of our Statement of Rights and Responsibilities. Facebook requires users to provide their real first and last names. Impersonating anyone or anything is prohibited, as is maintaining multiple profiles on the site. Unfortunately, we will not be able to reactivate this account for any reason. This decision is final.”

So, as real people, I am a bit confused. We use fake names since we need discretion in our lives, and without a means to be discreet we would have to not speak at all.

So Being that we are not “Impersonating anyone or anything”, and we are not “Fake”, I am left to assume our fake names are the problem here in their cut and paste rules department?

But then I stop and visit the personal page of the great Hulk Hogan! OOOps his name is Terry, so he is not using…. “Facebook requires users to provide their real first and last names”….

But the Hulkster is important, so we can’t shit on him.

I was unable to find the Facebook pages for Barry Alan Pincus, Bret Sychak, Ronald Walken or even Raymond Ayala. All real people, all “real first and last names”.

But I did find the very fictional and non-real first and last names of Barry Mannilow, Bret Michaels, Christopher Walken and Daddy Yankee.

If you are going to cut and paste the words “fuck off” to someone who takes the time to write you which proves them real, then please cut and paste with some consistency to your “rules”.

Us puuting ourselves out there in the lifestyle requires the same “stage name” anonymity to be able to express ourselves.

1. You are wearing wristbands in most of your vacation photos.
2. Half of the numbers on your cellphone are listed only by screen names.
3. You are running out of reasons to tell your coworkers why you can’t go out with them this weekend.
4. You have over 100,000 frequent flyer miles on Air Jamaica.
5. You know most of your friends’ names only as couples (Rich and Joy, Frank and Jen) but you don’t know their last names.
6. You go to a convention with three huge suitcases, yet are wearing the same outfit when you return as you did when you left.
7. You had already seen pictures of your friends naked before you ever met them in person.
8. You position the computer screen in your home office in such a way that your children can’t possibly sneak up on you.
9. You can’t remember the last time you had pubic hair.
10. Before traveling somewhere on business or to visit relatives you look up couples in the area.
11. You worry about explaining to the neighbors why 10 couples show up on a Saturday night carrying over night bags and don’t leave until Sunday afternoon…
12. You never open your garage door until you’re in the car with the doors closed.
13. Your gynecologist wonders why you’re asking for birth control when he knows that your husband has had a vasectomy.
14. Your hot tub has never had a bathing suit worn in it.
15. Your sex toy collection costs more than your china set.
16. Your wife has a shirt that says: “I Like Girls Too.”
17. You have a strippers pole in the middle of your den.
18. You giggle at the golf course when someone asks if they can join your foursome.
19. The last thing you typically do at a party is search for your wife’s thong.
20. You’ve hugged your friends goodnight while naked.
21. You hear the word “Playmate” and your first thought is not “Playboy”
22. The word “slut” has become a term of endearment.
23. You carry lube as often as lipstick.
24. Your choice in new carpeting is heavily based on which type won’t give you rug burns.
25. You’ve taken your Liberator with you to a dinner party.
26. The term Vanilla isn’t just a flavor to you anymore.
27. You have a full-length mirror in your bedroom… On your ceiling.
28. You are constantly encouraging your kids to spend the weekend at friends’ houses.
29. You don’t think twice about wearing a short skirt, high heels and fishnets when there is three feet of snow on the ground.
30. Your wedding reception has an after party.
31. You go to Las Vegas, but never gamble or leave the hotel.
32. You panic when your friend’s digital camera goes missing.
33. You’ve invited friends over and watched porn.
34. You’ve invited friends over and made porn.
35. You’ve watched someone do a tequila shot off of your wife’s bare ass.
36. Your friends know what brand of condom you prefer.
37. You wake up in the morning and find that half of the cloths on the floor don’t fit you or your wife.
38. Your kids think it’s normal for adults to have sleepovers.
39. A hot tub is considered a necessity not a luxury.
40. You believe in Unicorns… Because you’ve actually ridden one.
41. You leave the kids at home when you go to the toy store.
42. You’ve taken photos of yourself with your head out of frame; And it was on purpose.
43. You can’t decide which of your three naughty schoolgirl outfits you should wear this weekend.
44. You always keep a supply of condoms, lube and clean hand towels by your bed… And your guest bed… And your couch in the living room.
45. The employees fight to take your order at the One Hour Photo.
46. You frequently use the term “Friends of friends” when explaining how you know certain people.
47. You know which of your outfits looks best under a black light.
48. You have an entire closet devoted just to themed outfits.
49. You place a want ad that reads: “Wanted: Reliable babysitter who is willing to stay till sunrise and doesn’t ask any questions.”
50. You ask the sales man at the furniture store which type of upholstery best repels semen stains.
51. The staff of Hedonism III sends you birthday cards.
52. You come home with that, “There’s Something About Mary” hairstyle.
53. The babysitter wonders why you are always already wearing your full-length coat when she arrives.
54. In the gym shower you’re the only guy with shaved balls.
55. You know the most flattering angle at which to photograph your genitals.
56. Half of your vacation photos were taken in your hotel room.
57. You have a free place to stay in almost all the fifty states and several cities in Europe.
58. You’ve closed your e-mails with “Bi Bi”.
59. You can expertly identify the tactile differences between every type of breast implant ever created.
60. On Christmas, there are certain presents that can’t be opened in front of your family.
61. You know exactly which of your friends are allergic to latex.
62. Your vanilla friends ask why they are never invited to your parties.
63. The movie “Swingers” was a huge disappointment to you.
64. It’s an unwritten law that you can’t call any of your friends on Saturday or Sunday until at least 3 p.m. so you don’t wake them up.
65. You’ve become especially good at operating your digital camera with one hand.
66. At your “normal” parties no one can go into the basement because you’re afraid someone will notice the sex-swing.
67. You’re constantly afraid that visiting relatives will pop-in one of your home videos that you forgot to hide.
68. You make bets with other swinger friends about how long it will take to corrupt your cute vanilla girlfriend.
69. You’re in a public place and you swear you hear someone shout your screen name.
70. Before introducing them to your visiting family, you pull your friends aside and say, “OK, here’s how we know each other…”
71. You start having withdrawals after two days without internet access.
72. When someone asks where you’re staying on your trip to Cancun, you pretend that you can’t remember the name of the resort.
73. You ask a girlfriend to teach you: “That thing you do with your tongue that my husband enjoys so much.”
74. In the middle of sex with your spouse, you ask someone else to take over for a minute while you go to the restroom.
75. You are more concerned about a pimple on your privates than on your face.
76. You come back from vacation and you have a tan, but no tan lines.
77. The first thing you do checking into a hotel is to ask for a lot of extra towels.
78. All the men bring their wives to your bachelor party.
79. Making it an early night means getting home before 3 a.m.
80. You’ve handed out business cards to people, but the cards have nothing to do with your occupation.
81. Your sexual fantasies never last very long… Because they keep coming true!
82. You are hanging around vanilla friends and you absentmindedly squeeze their butts.
83. You erase your computer’s browser history and cache every time you leave your office.
84. You buy lap dances for your wife… And vice versa.
85. You own a double-headed dildo.
86. You’re still smiling on Monday morning about something you did on Saturday night.
87. You’re at the market, and the only things in your basket are condoms, breath mints and Red Bull.
88. On vacation you set aside time to stage a bunch of photos that are acceptable to show to your family.
89. After 25 years, people still ask if you’re newlyweds.
90. You’ve had sex with more people since you’ve been married than you did when you were single.
91. Going to vanilla bars ranks right up there with a root canal.
92. The only time you go out with your vanilla friends is when you’re on your period.
93. Your husband has lipstick on his collar and he smells like another woman’s perfume and it brings a smile to your face.
94. On Monday morning you are glad to go back to work so you can get some rest.
95. You spend the whole week before your parents arrive calling all you friends telling them not to call your answering machine while your parents are in town.
96. You get really tired of not making it to McDonalds before they quit serving breakfast Sunday morning (on your way home).
97. You have an entire external hard-drive devoted to nothing but your party photos.
98. You spouse is having an orgasm, while you are busy in the other room discussing the stock market.
99. You spent twice as long on your online profile than you did on your resume.
100. If you are reading this and laughing because many of these describe you…

Today, facebook decided to close our account. We have never posted nudity, we have never used profanity and we have never attacked anyone. we have offered tips and advice about our region and the swinging lifestyle that we choose.

Take a moment to search on facebook and you will find groups dedicated to porn, hate groups,and hateful activism in a number of groups either offensive and pornographic. Many of these groups have years in existence and huge followings. facebook doesnt choose to remove groups of gay/lesbian or homosexual rights and issues, but took ours down without a thought.

Both homosexuality and swinging lifestyle are considered non mainstream by most americans, and both involve personal private sexual choices between consenting adults.

If a person was to make the argument that homosexuality is not a choice, but a natural preference born into a human being, is not desire for multiple partners far more natural and prevelent?

Is there a man or woman anywhere that doesn’t have some level of this type of desire as part of their genetic code?

Why is it gay and lesbian groups are afforded so much protection, rights and “status” as a minority group for their personal choice, but when it comes to our personal choice, something far more common and natural, it is considered a fad or fringe?

This is not a shot at gay and lesbian groups or people. Keep in mind most women in the lifestyle identify as bisexual, and it is never a person I would judge, but the double standard towards the lifestyle is undeniable.

Facebook calls gay/lesbian groups, rights of minority groups and free expression and think in the same breath they can pass judgement on us. Two personal choices born of the same natural human pursuit of happiness.

We wrote them today, and will consider consulting a lawyer if they do not respond with some respect for our personal lifestyle choices.

“A swingers club in Mason County, West Virginia is coming under fire from local authorities who are questioning its right to operate without being licensed with the state. The Riverside Club, located in rural Gallipolis Ferry, advertises itself as a place to meet “open minded” people in a clean and “confidential” environment, who like to “flirt and play”. While its website does not exactly say it is a ‘swingers’ club’, the implication to county Commissioner Rick Handley is clear. Handley told Charleston, Virginia’s Daily Mail newspaper, “We surely don’t endorse a business like that coming into our rural community.”

The problem that the county commissioners may have, however, is that there do not seem to be any specific laws being broken inside the club. Handley’s position is that because the club accepts donations to attend its events, then they are operating as a business and should be licensed as such.

West Virginia is not a hotbed for swingers’ clubs when compared to the lifestyle scene in places like New York City and swingers clubs in Miami, Florida. But the fact is, swingers live everywhere in the country, often times right next to people who have no idea that they participate in the lifestyle.

And while many may have a personal objection to the swinger lifestyle, the vast majority of swingers, just like the vast majority of non-swingers, are law abiding citizens who live otherwise ‘normal’ lives (if there is such a thing).

If Mason County’s commissioners succeed in shutting down a swingers’ club on a technicality, even while stating that their intent is to rid their rural community of a swingers club, it could set off a backlash. Even those people who do not participate in the swinging lifestyle may see this move as a slippery slope to further regulation in their private lives, even when they are not breaking any law.

While the political will probably would not exist in most large cities to shut down swingers clubs, by sheer numbers, most swingers probably do not live in major metropolitan areas. So swingers and would be swingers would be wise to watch the West Virginia case closely to see what political and social precedent may be set.

Mary was Di’s older sister but the two of them were fairly close to each other. Mary’s husband Jerry was about as easy going as you could get. The two of them made a good pair as neither one seemed to get riled up about anything. Di and I were really easy going as well and naturally it was not a surprise that the four of us got along as well as we did. Mary was only three years older then Di and at forty-one was in great shape. The similarity between the sisters was unbelievable. Both were about the same height of five foot four with Mary being the shorter of the two. They each weighted around one hundred and ten pounds and had the same tiny frames with nice thirty-four B breasts. Each has an incredible ass… tight and nicely rounded. They both worked out to keep in shape and it showed. The biggest difference was the eyes and hair. Where Di was a striking red head with hazel eyes… Mary was a raven black hair blue eyed beauty. Both women were head turners by any standards. Jerry and I both were older than our wives by about nine years. Jerry being fifty and my being forty-eight made for an extremely easy bonding. Jerry was in some what better shape than me standing six foot one and two hundred and ten pounds. I was an even six foot and two hundred and twenty. Both of us were showing gray and comfortable with it. As far as Jerry and I went… I suppose if it wasn’t for a good personality we most likely wouldn’t turn the heads of young girls as we walked by. When Mary and Jerry showed up on Friday we all hugged and kissed having not seen each other for several months. We all sat around catching up on things and cocktailing until two a.m. or later. Jerry has always been an early riser so when Di got up at seven to go to work for a few hours she was not surprised to find Jerry up and drinking his coffee. Mary and I on the other hand enjoyed sleeping in. I rose about nine and pulled my robe on over my unclothed body and headed for the kitchen. I knew that Di would be at work but was surprised not to find Jerry. As I was making another pot of coffee I found the note on the counter. Hi Hon… Jerry and I went to the take care of the things I had to do this morning. We should be back by ten with his help. When my lazy sister gets up tell her to hurry up and get showered so we can get to the Camp early. See you soon… Love… Di I looked at the clock; nine on the nose. Well… if we were lucky Mary would be up by ten. I started to pick up the kitchen while the coffee brewed. I was washing some dishes when Mary sneaked up behind me and poked in the ribs scaring the shit out of me. I must have jumped a mile in the air as I spun around to face her. As I did the sash on my robe lost its grip and by the time I was facing my Sister-in-Law my robe was wide open. My heart was beating so fast I didn’t even notice my robe was open. Mary had stepped back and was laughing hard from catching me by surprise. “Son of a bitch Mary… You scared the fuck out of me.” I barely managed to get out as I faced her. “Jesus that was funny. I thought you heard me coming .God the look on your face Ron…hee…hee…hee.” She had her hand on her stomach and chest as she laughed and looked at me. “Well you damn near gave me a heart attack…” I said with a giggle getting caught up in her laughter. “God Mary… you shit.” I chided her now laughing almost as hard as she was. “Well at least I got a free show for my efforts. Nice package.” Mary said… as she looked at me her laughter subsiding. I followed her stare to my crotch and realized then that I was fully exposed to my beautiful Sister-in- Law. It was a warm day and my friend had no reason to be shy so he just hung there in all his glory. I have never been one to be was hung up on nudity so I grabbed the sides of my robe and opened them wider and said… “Why thank you.” I then took a bow before her and closed the robe as I stood up right. “Oh no… thank you. I enjoyed the view.” She kidded me.