I want to have real sex and nothing is work.

I play all my cards the best I know how, but somehow I always end up stuck in the friend zone. Usually because I’m too nice. The obvious answer, stop being nice, doesn’t work for me since I cant change who I am or how I was raised.

So what am I supposed to do to fix it?

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Well the easiest way to fix this…. There are a lot of older women, a lot of cougar on this website… They are looking for, young inexperienced men – to train them. If you find one, or, one of them find you, then your problem will be history.

You will have a lot of sex… sex with real women and they will train you… You will know everything that you need to know…

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Relax, lower expectations, face life on life’s terms, and stop whining. Taking healthy risks is part of a balanced approach to life. The world is like it is, now like we would like it.

Accept it and choose to be happy. It is your choice ya know. Maybe reading the book: “Choice Theory” by, Dr. Bill Glasser would help, or visit Lovecentria. They explain you everything about sex.

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Well look at it this way: one can never have too many friends whereas lovers tend to go and com. Just be patient surely the one for you will cross the friendship line.

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Be yourself. I too stay in the “friend” zone. I enjoy having friends and especially the two that are friends with benefits. It works for me at this point in my life.

If you are wanting more, do not change who your are just to attract women. Perhaps spending time learning about what women are truly attracted to would benefit you more. Real women really do like the “nice” guys and the gentlemen. Hugs and best wishes.

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Stop playing all your cards. Players are not so welcome. You better be yourself instead of playing.

And , “Because I am too nice” -  is the usual excuse for losers.  BTW, at the age of 18, did you ever try to meet someone, people like you, in real life ? This here might not be the best place for a greenhorn like you.

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I use to be there myself. What i did is get more aggressive / less shy. Instead of getting a hug get a kiss. Instead of holding hands put your arm around.

Make your intent clear that you want ore then friends; either physically or verbally.

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A lot of women go for bad boys, as you’ve probably noticed. I don’t think you need to change who you are. But, you need to let girls know if you want to be more than friends with them.

If they tell you they just want to be friends, accept this and move on. All you have to find are one or maybe two girls. Be patient and it will happen.

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Don’t fool yourself, if girls don’t want to get romantically involved with you it means you are doing something wrong, not because you are too nice! It’s the biggest misconception that guys think when they can’t get laid!

You are very young, you will learn, just pay attention, get as much information as you can (hopefully the good one), be patient and you will get there!

I agree with one of the above post. LoveCentria could help you!

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Welcome to the beginnings of your sexual journey. At age 18, you’ve got a lifetime of fucking in front of you!

Nice guys do not finish last… They just have the patience to wait to get the choicest selection. Being in the friend zone is good practice on how to be a decent human being. At your tender young age, you’ve an eye on quantity, but as you mature, you might find it’s really all about quality.

My one piece of advice to young men your age is to learn how to PASSIONATELY eat pussy! Girls like to get theirs, too and are generally more receptive to guys who they know will make this happen, instead of it being all about the dick, the dick, the dick!

LoveCentria can teach you, can show you have you should eat correctly any pussy. I mean not pussy licking… A correct pussy eating will end up in an incredible orgasm and the good news go around very fast. That girls will explain to her girlfriend and then she want you to eat her pussy too. You will have some much pussies, you tongue will get tired of them…

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I understand exactly what you mean. For many years I was stuck in the friend zone. I starting being more assertive and a little more aggressive. For those who just wanted friends, I kinda steered away unless my mind was made up that I had to have her.

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How many cards can you have you’re only 18. Just be yourself. Don’t change for anyone. Remain true to yourself & you’ll find a girl with similar qualities who will appreciate you for who you are. Stay sweet.

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Men love seeing kissing women. Why?
Regardless  of physical appearance, I found a good kisser partner is automatically much more attractive, then a really good looking bad kisser. I guess it have to do something with my desire to oral satisfaction. Something warm and wet between  … Continue reading →

Regardless  of physical appearance, I found a good kisser partner is automatically much more attractive, then a really good looking bad kisser.

I guess it have to do something with my desire to oral satisfaction. Something warm and wet between  our lips is the first sexual experience imprinted in our brains. Oral sensations directly connected to the place in our brain, that process  feeling and erotic pleasures and sexual satisfactions.

Kissing bring us very close to our partner. We can not see each other, we must rely on sensation.

How do you become a good kisser? I don’t want to talk about it here… If you want to know, visit Love Centria. They will tech you all, that you need to know about sex and love making, include kissing.

There is another, much more interesting kissing related question: Why do men love seeing two women kissing? Also I have a question form ladies too: Kissing men, two men kissing each other, with big fat juice French kisses. Is it a turn of for women, or is it disgusting?

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Watching 2 men kiss definitely is not a turn on for me, but I would not call it disgusting.

Kissing women, no idea why men find 2 women kissing sexy, but it can be a turn on for women too.

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Men look at two, hot horny kissing women and just hope, there has got to be something in there for him with two women at once…

I’m betting two men are going to be too into each other for a woman to imagine there’s going to be much real attention in there for her… Kind of two guys want to make her sexually excited… and they try to do anything… Or those two guys are bi guys and they really enjoy kissing with each other.

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Kissing men… It doesn’t necessarily look disgusting, but I admit, watching 2 men kiss is not as much of a turn on than watching two women kiss.  Sometimes I think its a turn on watching 2 men together… Watching one guy giving oral to another… definitely gets my pussy juice flow.

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Kissing is  a feeling of intimate pleasure and its the starting of a great fun ahead… from a guys perspective…

Women do love kissing men… It depends on person to person… If a woman is on a date or so with a guy ultimately she too loves getting kissed unless explicitly told… Women to women kissing is the question of the kissing women perspective…

Two kissing men – make me lose my sexual appetite.

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Kissing in general is a very erotic sight but to see 2 women kissing is even more so.. I think two kissing women are the most beautiful  creatures. Yummy!!!

As for 2 kissing men… Yuck!!!

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I think that women kissing each other is attractive to men because women are not only inherently more beautiful (from an aesthetic perspective) but also happen to look better when they are kissing. Their kissing seems at least to me to be more sensuous.

The reason that many women don’t enjoy watching men kiss is because they are less attractive from a idealistic point of view. In addition, men tend to be more visually stimulated than women so men already have a better chance of getting turned on by watching such an act than women.

One thing I’ve noticed is that when women kiss each other in a movie, nobody turns away from the screen, not even the straight women.

When two men kiss on screen, most men will turn away and also a good share of women. I like to think the men turn away partly because of society’s latent homophobia that has been ingrained in them.

Overall I think men enjoy women kissing for its visual draw. Women that enjoy men kissing seem to do so more because of the idea of the act or the taboo connected to the act, not the visual stimulus itself.

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Two women kissing… Having a threesome all comes from the natural desire of men to spread their seeds as much as possible. Propagate as much as possible. We, human are sexual animals and for men it is genetic.

When they see the possibility of spreading their seed to more than one woman at the same time, will seem more appealing…

Women on the other hand, have to carry the child and give birth to the child look more deeply to whose seed they are carrying and are more selective in choosing the father of their child. This is true both in Human as well as the rest of the animal kingdom.

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He loves to see me kissing another girl and says its, sexy, passion, sparks, and emotions.

I actually am turned on by men kissing at least from some of the group parties we have attended but its not my hubby’s thing.

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What do you prefer? Better sex, more sex or a great lover
Do you believe belonging to SwingersCouples.net helps you find better sex? From my own personal experience thus far, I think belonging to SwingersCouples.net might be conducive to more frequent sex, but not necessarily to better sex. Do you think being … Continue reading →

Do you believe belonging to SwingersCouples.net helps you find better sex?

From my own personal experience thus far, I think belonging to SwingersCouples.net might be conducive to more frequent sex, but not necessarily to better sex.

Do you think being a free user of SwingersCouples.net helps you to find better sex than you would find by meeting someone in person, as opposed to on-line?

Because SwingersCouples.net is a sex dating website site, people have expectations that their encounters are more likely to lead to sex than if they met someone, for example, at a bar. And, this probably is true. But, is the sex better? And what about with paid members? If you have paid membership, is sex better, then with free membership?

Your thoughts?

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Couldn’t tell you because the only people I’ve had sex with in the last year are people I met here… Somehow in my suburban neck of the woods, populated by a lot of couples, I haven’t met ANYONE else to have sex with or even to have a cup of coffee with, for that matter!

Now I can tell you that some of the sex has been mind-blowing and some has really been sub-par, and most of it has been somewhere in the middle. However all of that sex was sex…. and without SwingersCouples.net, I would not have any casual sex. So I am OK with this site and it’s service. Continue Reading…..

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I don’t know about better sex. Any sex is better then no sex! When I meet up with someone from here you expect at some point sooner than normal you are going to have sex and hopefully your sexual interest are similar so that maybe the sex is better.

This site at least helps you find like minded people and one would hope the sex is better. Continue Reading…..

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I don’t think it has helped me find better sex, but it has helped me find sexual partners, as it is hard for me to get out and socialize.

I have met with several guys here, one under this profile name, and several under another when I was here a while ago. Have only had one not so great experience, and that was more a case of non communication as jack rabbit sex or jack hammer sex. It really was far to painful for me! But it was my fall, because i did not tell hi, before what I like, and how I want to get it done.

Since that I make sure, everyone is understand why I am here and what I am looking for. Continue Reading…..

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We find that this site “SwingersCouple.net“, has only helped us become open to more ideas, in what we want for our relationship!

We have found to many looser and idiots here on “SwingersCouples.net“, to make much of a difference! We agree with all of you who stated it, this site has nothing to be with better sex! It just helps to search for compatible partners, and navigate you to the right direction if you would like to learn about sex. Continue Reading…..

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If your sex partner is a great lover, then does not matter where you find him. I wrote him, because we are looking for men… So what makes a man a great lover?

A lot of guys think that a bigger penis and more staying power will make them a better lover. Some think it’s about how suave you are, and how sophisticated. Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great lover is, but most would like to become one.

So bigger penis is definitely a BIG bonus for me, but we are looking for more then a big dick….  A big dick is not everything.

Better Sex  Bigger Orgasm

We like smart couples. Smart people listening to their partners and that is very relaxing. Feeling more relaxed can lead to much better sex.  Also a man that pays honest attention to his female partner can make her feel like she is important and not just another pussy to him.

What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly LIKE women.  That makes a big difference.  The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends.  A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

Also a man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good.  So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way.  It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all.  It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women. And of course, a great lover knows about the female body.  He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind.  He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make.  He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs.  If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately. A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her.  He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved.

Unfortunately most men do. What really keeps most men from being great lovers – lovers that women remember with a smile for years – is that they have a goal – and they act as if the woman is a means to that goal.  They are not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Communicate and listen to your partner and take your time. This three  are very  important things toward to have great sex.  Continue Reading…..

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What do you think about sex less marriages? Or not enough sex in a marriage…. Do you think lack of sex in a marriage leads to breaking up the relationship?

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If a person is not getting what they need in a marriage and cannot find it while still being married, then it is time to change that.

It’s a fact that most women don’t want to take the chance of having an affair with a married man, for the simple reason that they want to have him completely for themselves and not share him with another woman. Quite understandable.

I think the optimal affair is when both married partners know that their partner is having an affair with someone else and getting what they need there, but still love each other too. Love and sex can be and should be separated.

I feel that polyamory and polyandry are fine as long as the people don’t do things behind their partners backs. However it would be better for both, if they play together. Also women often looking for casual sex partner outside of their marriage, because their husband can not fulfill their sexual needs. After few years marital sex can get flat, boring, routine … and women say that their hubby is not a good sex partner…

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What makes a man a great sex partner?

A lot of guys think that a bigger penis and long erection, or bigger load…  is all what they need to being a good sex partner.  Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great sex partner is, but most would like to become one.

So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a man after the first time they made out? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women?

Many, women, even at home in the family bed,  like to be listened to.  They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed lead to great orgasm!

Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him. What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly like women, they know how to tread a women and they know how to make a women feel special.  That makes a big difference.

The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends.  A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

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Also a man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good.  So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way.  It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all.

It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women. And of course, a great lover or a great sex partner knows about the female body.  He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind.  He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make.  He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs.  If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately. A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her.  He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved.

Unfortunately most men do. Most men not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Next time try listening to your lady.  I mean  really listening.  Talk with her, get to really know her.  Enjoy her company, don’t focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later on.  If you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you – and that is the most important first step toward being a great sex partner.

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What about having a relationship based on emotional intimacy over a sexual one? If the emotional bond is there, I think lack of sex, doesn’t necessarily mean it will always lead to a break up.

Although, if emotional intimacy is lacking in addition to a physical one, I feel there is more of a chance of breaking up as opposed to just a relationship that just merely lacks sex…

Maybe its just me, but sometimes i think sex is over rated when it comes to being the one thing that seems to be the essential part of having two people stick together. The guy I’m with, he knows a lot about me and my past and he’s accepting of it all.  And a part of me really enjoys the fact that he remains with me… he’s not looking at me, what can I offer him sex wise, but he likes me for other aspects of myself other than whats between my legs.

Sure, he may not offer me everything I need or want, but I find his emotional support means far more important to
me than him providing me with a sex life…  I am fairly attractive women and I can find great sex partner very easily, but supporting, loving man, is not that simple to find.

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About the above post. If you are getting great sex from somebody else, then you lovely relationship already in the ditch… special if you are looking that great sex behind your partner. If you are here as a couple and do things together, then that is a different story.

Since sex is the expression of that intimate relationship and to not have it, to me, means there is no connection. I
am not married nor have I ever been, but I just can’t see why you want to make a life long commitment to someone
and not touch them or be touched by them.

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Sure, sex can be seen as an expression of an intimate relationship, but so can  an emotional one. And who says you need to have sex in order to receive a humans touch…  There are more ways to receive human contact than just merely having sex…  I connect more on an emotional level, feel a lot more closer with the guy I’m with, than any other guy I’ve chosen to have sex with from here in the first place…

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I need advice, tips, any help on how to ask my partner to experiment with another couple. Seriously I need advice on how to ask my girlfriend to participate in some hot sexual activities with other couples, women or men without sounding like a prude or an ass. She only mentions adding an addition to [...]

I need advice, tips, any help on how to ask my partner to experiment with another couple. Seriously I need advice on how to ask my girlfriend to participate in some hot sexual activities with other couples, women or men without sounding like a prude or an ass.

She only mentions adding an addition to the bedroom when she is drinking. But that tells me that she has thought about it. Any ideas on how to bring this to reality?

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Sometimes when people drink, they turn to be more open, they might talk more. It might not be your girlfriend, it might be the alcohol who talks from her. The alcohol changes many people personality, some of the turn to really friendly, some others very aggressive, etc.

In your case, your girlfriend is talking about her fantasy when she is under the effect of alcohol. Everybody have erotic fantasy, but some people never say anything about anybody, some others try to make it reality.

I don’t think drunken or half drunken talk from your lady mean anything. She just might try to be somebody else when she had more drink that she can handle….

You need to talk about this with her when she is sober… and the best time is during intercourse, when she is close to have an orgasm…

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I have found that some women although not every women, have a tendency to hint at a fantasy or two without taking any ownership of the idea or making any effort to make it happen.

This seems like a way of protecting themselves from accusations of being a slut or oversexed, which is a tragic risk women still face in our society.

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I believe that more women think about and fantasize about sexual adventures with others then their spouse, than actually do anything about it. When alcohol is involved… inhibitions go out the window and you can blame anything on the “I was drunk” excuse.

Confidence in one’s sexuality leads to exploration. Maybe you could ask her about her fantasies and let her know you remember her drunken words and let her know you would like to make them come true. She may reciprocate…

Ya man, never know. Give it a try!

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What I find strange and it happens a lot, is the number of people who come on here and, ask total strangers for advice on asking their partners on sexual matters such as this. It is strange, but I understand, because this forum’s advice line was created for this reason, plus easy to ask a question with out anybody know who you are.

That is why the Internet is changed the erotic dating world!

At the end of the day, you should be able to discuss anything with her and she should be comfortable enough to answer you in an adult way. Just ask her and hopefully, she will answer you. Just respect her decision, even if it’s not the answer you want. Forcing the issue will alienate her from you.

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The next time you are having sex flirt with the question of inviting another man to join you two.

See how she reacts. If she did not say no way… and did not jump up and run a way, then you just need to talk a little more…

But be careful, it might happen she run a way and then you just get into yourself a big trouble.

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Sit down over a glass of wine and say these words: “What do you say we experiment with another couple“.

There is two words what she can say.. or she can ask you back? How do you think?

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Any sage advice for a woman setting up her first Gang Bang?

I am a BBW women and I so badly want to fulfill my fantasy of having sex with a bunch of men at one time. More is merrier! I see myself in a safe, secure and private place where I can scream and moan as loud as I can with all that meat in my mouth, ass, pussy and ?

I’ve talked about it with a few male FWBs of mine, but they just don’t seem into it. Have any other BBWs set up a successful gang bang and loved it? How did you go about it? Did you know all the guys before you did it?

I’m really interested in setting up the logistics so I can relax and enjoy getting myself fucked. Any input is greatly appreciated.

I have not set one up yet but it sounds like you are on the right track. I have heard you will want the next day entirely free to rest. You will not be able to walk and your neck will be stiff and according to your post you are into anal sex. Well I am sure your ass will be hurt too…

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I only know of one woman who is into gang bangs and from her experience it is difficult to find guys willing to actually go through with it. She says she over invites and hopes that most show up(she often jokes how many emergencies happen on gang bang night). Usually it ends up being her boyfriend and maybe one or two other guys actually participating.

Gang Bang is not my game but she continues to ask but I defer (so far). Hope that helps a little.

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Might want to check to see if there are any established gangbang or orgy groups in your area. You can check them out in the Local Groups’ List. Those types of groups can help setup a safe environment and bring some experienced people into the mix.

Plus they are always looking for more women who are wanting to play.

Setting up your own can be tough, because even though you do all the legwork, less than 50% who say they will show up will follow through. You can reserve a hotel room and invite about 10 interested guys to join you to start. Make sure a trusted FWB is there who knows exactly what you want and don’t want and is comfortable enforcing the rules.

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Some fantasies are better left as just that. Nothing about a gang bang with many un-know men is safe or secure. Even if you know them, just knowing the guys…doesn’t transform this into safe sex.

Even with condoms on every swinging dick there, you’re have chances of contracting STD. During gangbang and anal sex some bleeding can occur and that is make you game even more riskier…

No wonder the the guys you know aren’t going for it. They seem to have some common sense!

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I had sex with my husband and other man many times. But I never made out with more than 2 men in the same time.

I love make  out with two men…. but I think that it is very different. I think I can’t play with  3 or more men at same time. I do not have stomach to that…

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That is the funny thing about fantasies: they do not always work out so great in reality.

From a guy’s point of view, you will definitely have to find men who are comfortable in a setting like that. Many men feel awkward bumping in to another naked man or touching the sperm of another man. Those things would most likely happen during a gang bang, even if everyone wears “double condoms”. A gang bang is very messy…

Are you into oral sex? In gang bang? Things like this turns men off to that idea.

Maybe you should start slow, pick just two guys, to have threesome, other time other two guys for a threesome and if it work, then combine the two groups into one and viola, you have your first gangbang!

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I had been in one swinger club a gang bang party where only the hostess knew everybody, and clearly that was a good event, even I did not participate in. I guess that kind of an experience is easier with strangers than with guys whom you will meet in your daily life.

Anyway, I would not dare have an own private gang bang without a “security man”. I am no BBW, but I guess the security problem is same for all women.

Why don’t you contact some group from this site here?

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Never really work out as you plan trust me. Threesomes and foursomes are much better. Full blown gang bangs especially with 4 or more men are a fantasy killer. It’s never as it appears in your mind or in movies.

Also, vetting and qualifying can be tough, in addition to the transmission of diseases, the probability of contracting something increases with the number of men. This happens all the time. Just like Red said above, some fantasies are better left as such.

Focus on threesomes or foursomes and have as much fun as you can.

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I absolutely agree that older men do care more about their sex partner… and they are much more polite then young guys.

As we women get older we have less chance to have quality sex and if we lucky enough to have a mind blowing orgasm we appreciate more our partner’s love making knowledge. I am 35 years old, and no any guy from my age group or younger guy was able to make me climax with vaginal penetration.

Men 10 – 15 years older then me could take their time… as long as it needed.

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I derive my pleasure from the enjoyment my lovers or sex partner experience, while learning from her what works best each time, so that each next time is potentially that much more enjoyable.

A woman seeking an older, more experienced lover are far more likely to learn new things about what their own bodies are capable of, are likely to enjoy longer and better foreplay, and will come away with a greater and deeper understanding of what they should expect from a good lover to begin with.

Some have said that such a lover would ruin it for other lovers she has, but it is my conviction that she will be far better prepared to offer directions and instructions that produce results, to her future lovers, while being far less prone to settling for any half-baked asshole who thinks he’s god’s gift to any woman.

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I think guys in their 50′s are wonderful lovers… patient, very concerned with their partner’s pleasure, well-versed in a variety of techniques, etc.

As a result, I prefer them over the ones in their 30′s, even though the younger guys have their appeal in other ways.

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Fortunately, I learned pretty quickly that there were two of us in bed looking for enjoyment, not just me. I don’t profess to be the greatest thing since sliced bread, but, hopefully, I have learned to press the right buttons and take my time.

I have stated previously, sex with man over 50 is more of a long distance event than a 100 meter dash. We take time to speed up, keep on the speed longer and pass the finish line hours later, while give to our partner and to ourselves total sexual satisfaction…

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I’ve always preferred older men. From my experience, they’ve been more attentive. Even though their libido
was not what it once was when they were younger, they took their time because they wanted to savor every moment up to penetration. No “wham bam thank you, ma’am” with them…

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What seems to be older is younger for me and not to generalize, it is my experience that most men in their lower to upper 50′s make great lovers. They are considerate, educated, have nice manners and their knowledge of “la femme” is surprisingly and refreshingly good.

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So far I do find that when playing with older men, I am able to enjoy and climax more often and many times over then when I am playing with guys around and younger then me.

Plus because they do not take short cuts… my climax are much more fulfilling, satisfying then with climax from younger guy.

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I think it have to do something with the women age too. I am a 65 years old women to have sex with a 70 years old man is not at the top of my wish list…

I enjoy younger men-always have, always will. But when you get to be my age, that’s damn near all of them! I prefer late 30′s to mid 40′s because they are old enough to have all that teenage crap out of the way but they are also experienced enough to know their way around a female body.

I have a high sex drive yet, and that age group seems to be able to keep up with me! But it is not easy, because not many 530 years old man want to have sex with a women, who can be older and probably is older then their mother…

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Sex and money are the two most common reasons why relationships fall apart. So my answer is Yes.

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If a person is not getting what they need in a marriage and cannot find it while still being married, then it is time to change that.

It’s a fact that most women don’t want to take the chance of having an affair with a married man, for the simple reason that they want to have him completely for themselves and not share him with another woman. Quite understandable.

I think the optimal affair is when both married partners know that their partner is having an affair with someone else and getting what they need there, but still love each other too. Love and sex can be and should be separated.

I feel that polyamory and polyandry are fine as long as the people don’t do things behind their partners backs. However it would be better for both, if they play together. Also women often looking for casual sex partner outside of their marriage, because their husband can not fulfill their sexual needs. After few years marital sex can get flat, boring, routine … and women say that their hubby is not a good sex partner…

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What makes a man a great sex partner?

A lot of guys think that a bigger penis and long erection, or bigger load…  is all what they need to being a good sex partner.  Most men aren’t really clear on what they think a great sex partner is, but most would like to become one.

So what make women sigh and tell their girlfriends about a man after the first time they made out? What makes a man so appealing and successful with many women?

Many, women, even at home in the family bed,  like to be listened to.  They like to feel that they are communicating with their partner, and they are much more likely to feel special and relaxed when the man they are worth focuses on them. And feeling more relaxed lead to great orgasm!

Also a man that pays honest attention to his date can make her feel like she is important and not just another body to him. What’s more, most men that women consider great lovers really truly like women, they know how to tread a women and they know how to make a women feel special.  That makes a big difference.

The average man in the street makes jokes about women, and doesn’t see them as friends.  A man that makes women feel liked is going to be a man women like.

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Also a man who touches women gently and doesn’t rush when he is kissing, touching or stroking makes a woman feel good.  So many men want to get through the kissing and the foreplay and go straight to the sex, but women don’t feel that way.  It makes them feel less relaxed and less like having sex at all.

It certainly isn’t the way to excite and stimulate most women. And of course, a great lover or a great sex partner knows about the female body.  He knows that most women are turned on by gentle bites on the neck and throat while being held from behind.  He knows that gently pulling her head back with her hair while kissing her is very exciting for a lot of women.

He also pays attention during sex, and listens to the sounds his lover makes – or doesn’t make.  He works his way gradually to her nipples and her inner thighs.  If something makes her pull back a little, he is paying enough attention to notice, and will stop immediately. A lover a woman remembers afterward doesn’t just stick in his penis and hammer at her.  He doesn’t stop talking softly to her the minute that intercourse is achieved.

Unfortunately most men do. Most men not sharing an experience or pleasure, they are trying to get off.

Next time try listening to your lady.  I mean  really listening.  Talk with her, get to really know her.  Enjoy her company, don’t focus on the question of whether you will have sex with her later on.  If you do not rush, and you make her feel special, she is going to feel great being with you – and that is the most important first step toward being a great sex partner.

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For me YES! For me nothing is more important in my marriage then a sex. Great sex, great marriage… Lack of sex destroys healthy relationships.

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What about having a relationship based on emotional intimacy over a sexual one? If the emotional bond is there, I think lack of sex, doesn’t necessarily mean it will always lead to a break up.

Although, if emotional intimacy is lacking in addition to a physical one, I feel there is more of a chance of breaking up as opposed to just a relationship that just merely lacks sex…

Maybe its just me, but sometimes i think sex is over rated when it comes to being the one thing that seems to be the essential part of having two people stick together. The guy I’m with, he knows a lot about me and my past and he’s accepting of it all.  And a part of me really enjoys the fact that he remains with me… he’s not looking at me, what can I offer him sex wise, but he likes me for other aspects of myself other than whats between my legs.

Sure, he may not offer me everything I need or want, but I find his emotional support means far more important to
me than him providing me with a sex life…  I am fairly attractive women and I can find great sex partner very easily, but supporting, loving man, is not that simple to find.

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About the above post. If you are getting great sex from somebody else, then you lovely relationship already in the ditch… special if you are looking that great sex behind your partner. If you are here as a couple and do things together, then that is a different story.

Since sex is the expression of that intimate relationship and to not have it, to me, means there is no connection. I
am not married nor have I ever been, but I just can’t see why you want to make a life long commitment to someone
and not touch them or be touched by them.

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Sure, sex can be seen as an expression of an intimate relationship, but so can  an emotional one. And who says you need to have sex in order to receive a humans touch…  There are more ways to receive human contact than just merely having sex…  I connect more on an emotional level, feel a lot more closer with the guy I’m with, than any other guy I’ve chosen to have sex with from here in the first place…

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Consistent squirting. I’m a squirter, found that out via masturbating! I was wondering why do I squirt one time having sex with someone then when I have sex with the same partner or with different different partner, but in the same same sex position, I don’t squirt??

Anyone else have this happen?

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Maybe it is because you know your body better then your lovers. Try talking more to your men and let them know what you like and want and then maybe the water works will come back.

Just a personal note squirting is hot and very sexy!

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That happens to me as well. Those who have made me squirt can do it consistently, but there are others who haven’t been able to make it happen at all even with guidance.

It all depends on your partners ability to find your spot & with you relaxing yourself enough to let go & let it flow.

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My wife is a squirter too and as inconsistent as you. In my wife’s case it’s more about how erotic the situation
is rather than what is happening!

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I don’t squirt so I can’t say first hand. I would think it has something to do with your state of mind at the time. Maybe you’re not as relaxed as you are when your masturbating.

Sometimes if you try to do anything to hard it just makes it more difficult.

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It is different every time. Sometimes I find that once a man gets me really squirting, they expect it every time, that puts pressure on me to squirt and makes it harder.

I also find that being slightly dehydrated makes it harder too.

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I’m not a squirter, so I can’t answer your question. I didn’t even know such a thing existed until my husband
tried to get me interested in porn some years back and that was one of the subjects. Squirt queens, or some such thing was that porn movies name.

I never really understood how it happens. Maybe, like fre2play says, it has to do with your state of mind and how excited and therefore how wet you get as you masturbate.

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I find it depends on many things…

My mood, degree of arousal.

My partner penis size and his knowledge, etc.

I just enjoy it when it happens!!! And of course the guys enjoy even more!

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The most frustrating is when I don’t want to squirt and it happens… Like at home at night in our bed. I don’t wanna sleep on THAT wet spot! So I need to change the bed shit, and it usually happens when the bed is clean. I think it is something in my brain.

With me it has to do with how hydrated I am… less hydrated, less squirting… and alcohol causes less volume too. So when I changed the bed shits, then I drink before I go to sleep. My husband don’t like to touch me if I drink… so it give me a day or two on hand, but after that, I will get that bed really wet…

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I need advice, tips, any help on how to ask my partner to experiment with another couple. Seriously I need advice on how to ask my girlfriend to participate in some hot sexual activities with other couples, women or men without sounding like a prude or an ass.

She only mentions adding an addition to the bedroom when she is drinking. But that tells me that she has thought about it. Any ideas on how to bring this to reality?

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Sometimes when people drink, they turn to be more open, they might talk more. It might not be your girlfriend, it might be the alcohol who talks from her. The alcohol changes many people personality, some of the turn to really friendly, some others very aggressive, etc.

In your case, your girlfriend is talking about her fantasy when she is under the effect of alcohol. Everybody have erotic fantasy, but some people never say anything about anybody, some others try to make it reality.

I don’t think drunken or half drunken talk from your lady mean anything. She just might try to be somebody else when she had more drink that she can handle….

You need to talk about this with her when she is sober… and the best time is during intercourse, when she is close to have an orgasm…

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I have found that some women although not every women, have a tendency to hint at a fantasy or two without taking any ownership of the idea or making any effort to make it happen.

This seems like a way of protecting themselves from accusations of being a slut or oversexed, which is a tragic risk women still face in our society.

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I believe that more women think about and fantasize about sexual adventures with others then their spouse, than actually do anything about it. When alcohol is involved… inhibitions go out the window and you can blame anything on the “I was drunk” excuse.

Confidence in one’s sexuality leads to exploration. Maybe you could ask her about her fantasies and let her know you remember her drunken words and let her know you would like to make them come true. She may reciprocate…

Ya man, never know. Give it a try!

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What I find strange and it happens a lot, is the number of people who come on here and, ask total strangers for advice on asking their partners on sexual matters such as this. It is strange, but I understand, because this forum’s advice line was created for this reason, plus easy to ask a question with out anybody know who you are.

That is why the Internet is changed the erotic dating world!

At the end of the day, you should be able to discuss anything with her and she should be comfortable enough to answer you in an adult way. Just ask her and hopefully, she will answer you. Just respect her decision, even if it’s not the answer you want. Forcing the issue will alienate her from you.

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The next time you are having sex flirt with the question of inviting another man to join you two.

See how she reacts. If she did not say no way… and did not jump up and run a way, then you just need to talk a little more…

But be careful, it might happen she run a way and then you just get into yourself a big trouble.

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Sit down over a glass of wine and say these words: “What do you say we experiment with another couple“.

There is two words what she can say.. or she can ask you back? How do you think?

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Is it possible to find someone here to have long term monogamous, casual sex relationship? I mean get together once or twice a week, and have some erotic fun, include, intercourse, oral sex or what ever it take… After he goes his way, I go my way, until the next meeting. No love, no commitment, [...]

Is it possible to find someone here to have long term monogamous, casual sex relationship? I mean get together once or twice a week, and have some erotic fun, include, intercourse, oral sex or what ever it take… After he goes his way, I go my way, until the next meeting. No love, no commitment, just hard core sex. Of course we need to find each other attractive, otherwise we would not enjoy it.

People put these labels:  Friends with benefits and  no strings attached sex. I’m very confused about it. And pretty much always they mention that having this type of relationships they were seeing other people.

So my question is: Is it possible to have long term sexual relationships (sex only) without seeing other people for casual sex? I know it sound complicated… and confusing. How can I explain?

I want a man who do not fuck everyone who is available. I want him to fuck me only and if he is married, of course he need to serve his wife sexual needs too.

Is it possible to find a man and develop a sex relationship like this?

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Oh yeah baby! Email me and I will bang you years to come. I am not a sex god, but fairly good sex partner…

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If you are fortunate enough to meet a truly genuine person (they do exist);  Sure! Just don’t hope for a miracle. Sounds pretty bleak, however the harsh reality.

A lot of fakes, and liars. Maybe their wife out of town and they just want to get a one night stand. You never trust a man, if you talk about no commitmetn sex… You want to get fucked and they want to fuck you… To get you, they will tell you what you want to hear, and as soon as their wife is back home… they will be gone.

I see on your age, you are not a teen girl, and you are naive like one…

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I tried it once and it ended very badly. Don’t get your heart attached to people here. They are 99% of the time logging on as soon as you leave. I won’t say it’s impossible, but I would keep that pretty little guard up.

Keep it in your mind, this is an erotic dating and swingers sex website. Swingers love to have sex often with multiply sex partners. They are everything but not monogamous, casual sex partners…

Actually I never heard a word combination like this: Monogamous, casual sex partner, but I understand what you try to do here.

Maybe your hubby is old, or he have some healthy issue and he can not make you “happy” sexually, but you do not want to leave him, instead you want a man, who can and will “do you” on a regular basics. If something is like this is in your mind, then yes, it is possible, but it wont happen overnight… You might have give an access to your pussy for a lot of men, before you will find one, who do not want to have sex with anyone else, just only with you…

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I am a man and I really do not mind to play with you, but years to come… Hard to say. I’d rather find a serious relationship, but if it comes down to finding a partner for more than a night. So if it years to come I would like it to be an exclusive partnership so I / we can really take our time getting to know each other in many different ways.

A far as one-nighties go, no thanks! I want to be able to know my partner so that each succeeding time we meet up, there is something worth talking about, something from our last tryst that enables me to get a better handle on how best to please her as my lover, and I want a reason besides sex alone to look forward to seeing her again.

For me, a FWB situation needs to be exclusive and meaningful in more than a sexual way.

FWB is something that both partners need to discuss openly and come to solid acceptance of terms, whatever they may be.

No strings attached ex is nice, but is just too sterile for my age and tastes. I want more, period.

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That’s right, as I wrote it above I’m looking for sexual relationships, not friendship, not pen pals, no cam sex, no online sex, no boyfriend and not husband. So, just because it’s a sex site, or swingers sex web site it’s completely imposable to have it with one partner only?

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No Milashka. there is nothing impossible if we talking about sex here. But as too good to your baby wrote it, it wont happen overnight…

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It has happen before, search the archives for success stories.

It happened with me too. I just can  not, and do not walk out from my marriage and my husband know I have someone on the site, and he is okay with this. He know I have needs that he can not fulfill, but we still love each other. Love and sex is two different things.

Anyway, I have applied what I’ve learned from DatingSensations to all to my erotic dating and have met men on this websites that have led to a 3 year long sex relationships and one 1 year long in the last 6 years. The 1 year long is presently on going…

We consider ourselves friends for the public and virtually we are fuck buddy. You can call it “dating exclusively” for sex. It is what you make of it. I’m really hoping for a longer term sex relationship, but it takes time to know people.

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My fiance and I are into casual sex. I guess I can say, we are swingers, but we are not into full swap. She’s a little curious, and hasn’t done a whole lot with other women. She’s kissed a couple but that’s it, she would like to try more, but is a little shy. I [...]

My fiance and I are into casual sex. I guess I can say, we are swingers, but we are not into full swap. She’s a little curious, and hasn’t done a whole lot with other women. She’s kissed a couple but that’s it, she would like to try more, but is a little shy.

I told her that we could come on here and talk to a few people and see what happens.

She wants the girls to know that this would be her first time and may not know fully what to expect. We had a silver membership and that did not happen and now just let it be standard membership.

We have had several people email us but it goes nowhere and we get a lot of views on our profile.

And before you say it, I do not want to have sex with two girls. I have to say, I do not want to screw anyone wife, girlfriend, etc. I do not want to fuck any other women, just only my fiance, that is why I wrote at above, we are not into full partner swap.

Is here any bi couriers woman, or a couple with bi curious woman, maybe a lesbian woman, play with couples…? Does anyone ever really meet up?

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People meet up all the time, but it does take time to get comfortable with each other and meet. Plus you are looking for something that is very hard to find.

There aren’t that many single women who play with couples. You are probably competing with hundreds of other couples for each single woman who even shows an interest in couples.

Much more better option, if you looking for “soft swing” couples with bi woman, and let the ladies play alone.  Or if you want to watch them, then the other guy will watch your lady too.

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Yes, people do follow through and meet up! I can definitely understand your fiance shyness…

Best of luck to you!

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Yes! Lots of people meet up on here. If your fiance is uncertain, maybe get a silver or gold membership so she can contact a woman that interest her.

If she is too shy to send someone and email then she is too shy to be meeting people. If she really wants it she will make it happen.

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We are a couple and we meet up often. We do not have sex every time but we meet up with anybody that interests us to see if we are a good match for fun times.

And if there is a chemistry, we go somewhere privet and try to have fun…

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I definitely have and think a lot of people out there will.  The problem is the percentage of “real people” vs. creepers that like getting off by talking about things. Just be selective and patient.

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Well she’s very hot! She should consider men! Honestly, you might work on the profile a little or just let her set up her own.

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I agree. Single women (also called Unicorns) are hard to find. I’ve had several conversations but none ever went anywhere.

My wife and I are real. When we make a date, whether it be dinner or a play date, unless there are extreme circumstances (e.g. not feeling well, sitter cancels, etc), we show up to meet people.

Some people are interested but may need to feel comfortable before doing so. A good ice breaker we’ve found, is to to chat on an IM program so you can chat and learn about each other, what your preferences are, what kind of rules you have, and even exchange pictures.

There are a lot of fake profiles here, as the above post said, they just want to get off via talking about it. So beware of that too!

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Yes. Serious people don’t advertise on the Advice Line. They have paid memberships and put their preferences and experiences in their profiles.

And then they do sophisticated searches for other members who match their own experiences and preferences and they read their profiles.

Then they send out lots of emails. You can’t do very much of this with a Standard account unless you are an individual woman with some skills for getting men or others to write to you.

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Yes we have had a paid membership, longer then 2 years… and it got us no where and like my boyfriend said it, for now we just have the standard membership. We have had to cut back because of the economy on some luxury items.

And for the dirty minded men, mo my fiance does not get to fuck other women. That is his choice, he he doesn’t want it. My pussy enough for him…. We are on her for my need, and that is a woman like me.  Also I don’t need another dick I got a pretty good one I can fuck anytime I want it.

We are on here so I can experiment with my bi-curiosity. We have not been that active on here for a while because of work and other activities. Now we have some extra time and trying are luck again.

We actually go to swinger parties and everything but men don’t get it…I DON’T WANT YOU. I want to play with women. We don’t care if the woman is single or in a relationship, as long as the guy does not touch me we are good.

Egnwu, we were just asking a question and you  jump down on our throat…. As I see your profile, we were longer paid members, then you are a member… So thanks for your advise, I am appreciate your understanding.

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For you guys and gals and mainly couples…. what is too personal and how do you deal with it to keep sex under control when you, swap exchange partner?

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For example when we first got into this lifestyle my husband and I discussed what was too personal for us and and how are we going to deal with it, it was decided that:

1. Guys kissing me was too personal for my husband.
2. I did not like the thought of a guy cuming inside me, I only wanted my husband to do that, so there is no unprotected sex. Wear condom or no intercourse.

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3. We did not want, and do not want anyone playing with my ass as, not even finger my ass the only hole that truly still virgin (from others). That is my husband’s and his alone.

Those were the things that we decided were too personal and we made a set of rules that we play by

1. No scuba suit, bare back riding = no scuba diving (condom required NO exceptions)
2. My ass is off limits to all but husband
3. No kissing her (males only)
4. He is str8, not male to male play (NO EXCEPTIONS)

So again I ask what is too personal and how do you deal with it to keep it under control?

Also… Have you ever came across someone who wanted to play but did not like what you did to “remove the too personal” from the encounter?

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I do not really get it, why you talking about personal… Your list is not personal. Personal when you go to the washroom to have poo… You list is your preferences or your rules. And it is okay, everybody should have a rule. Everyone should talk about their own and set up their own rules.

Other can take it or leave it. If they don’t like they can take a hike… And if you and your hubby think the rules are just to much, then you talk about them again and change them… but not the middle of a sex act.

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Hubby being straight, I understand. Your ass off limits, I understand, safe sex I agree. In fact it should be safe sex only.

But the kissing part telling me, you would rather play with yourselves and have a programmable robot as your
extra playmate. Too many restrictions for me…

If you say that not kiss on the mouth or no French kissing I might understand that too… but like this, you just should get a dildo and play with yourself…

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If you’re having sex with someone, how can some act be too “personal?” having a shit is personal… If there are things you’re just not into, that’s one thing and I think that everyone should respect the limits of others, but sex is pretty privet matter, except if you are exhibitionist and do it on public…, so I don’t consider anything to be too personal that you wrote above. Those are your rules.

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I would think its up to you you set the rules and anyone that wants to play has to play by them rules or move on so I don’t think it is or should be a problem.

I always ask for ground rules before we get into sex play.

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How to keep keep things under control, in the heat of the moment? I mean during intercourse.

We are only doing MFM threesomes, so the rules we created is focusing to the extra male: no blow
jobs, no anal, condoms or leave.

NO means no, period. French kissing is up from me, if I kiss the guy first, then he can go for it. Sometimes I am uncomfortable with kissing and some other time I love to kiss.

When we meet the guy and we decide to go for sex then we explain our rules, either he agree or no deal. We have a code if I or he feel something is wrong or any of us want out; will we stop all action and we just start to talk. I will find an excuse, like headache or puking, or period, etc… and he have to leave.

We play usually in hotel, we rent the room, so if doesn’t want to leave, we can call the security. However it never happened… not yet.

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Your straight hubby sounds more like a control freak than a swinger, or you just don’t want o do it and don’t want o say no, so you came up with those rules….

I had a long time living in girlfriend, we visited many sex parties together. It started when I was in college and lasted for longer then my marriage… We had only two rules, safe sex only and and if he ass fucked her I was aloud to do the same with his wife or girlfriend.

I think it was fair enough.

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So here you go… you can have sex with my wife, but you can not kiss her… kiss is a kiss, you do not say kiss to where, just no kiss. Not even on your boobs or tummy… Is anybody ever played with you guys?

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Its your body, your preferences. I know that for me I wouldn’t be interested. No anal is fine, it is your ass… but no kissing I can understand…

What you are wanting is to just feel someone else inside of you and the added benefit of your hubby watching you get fucked. So how you going to turn that guy on….?

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Must we have sex on our first time to date for a serious relation? Or do we have to make out on our first date if we are looking for casual sex?

Well, I”m not looking for a serious relationship, but why some of the guys did leave me an email to tell me that they’re looking for a serious relationship? What’s the different between intimate, sex relation and serious relationship dating?

If we go on a date for serious relation, can we not to have sex for a first date? Or we must have sex for a first day for serious relation? Can we only meet for a drink or dinner only?

Or on the other side, if we are looking for sex relationship, do we  have to make out on our first date?

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If you don’t want a serious relationship, why go on a date with a guy that does? If he wants to be serious, he’s going to want that whether you have sex or just dinner and drinks.

It sounds to me like you just want sex, and that’s fine. But it also sounds like you’re willing to lead a guy to believe that you may be interested in a serious relationship just to get sex, and that might be unfair to him.

But he may have sex with you anyway because although he may be wanting a serious relationship, he may also be horny. Horny men have hard time to control their brain when they dick is hard and front of them is a horny woman…

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You are the one that makes that call. If you want to sleep with him on the first date, that is your prerogative. Sex on the first date, to me, does not mean dating. Dating is a continual process and so is an intimate relationship.

Yes, you can meet for drinks and dinner only…see where it leads to from there.

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This is quite an arguable situation, though it really does depend on who it is that you are dating and what kind of person you are.

In many Asian cultures, sex is a great taboo which can only be committed during the ages of adulthood. Being trusted to have sex and committing to that person may be a great step for an Asian couple.

Otherwise, it is usually how much this girl or boy actually values sex. If they truely value this activity as passionate and true love, it should be a great step towards a strong relationship.

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I don’t think there are any standard rules for what can or can’t happen, it all depends on the individuals and what sort of feelings you might share or the connection that takes place.

I’ve had sex on the first date where things lead to a long term relationship and other first dates that which sex didn’t occur, yet lead to long term relationships.

My last casual relationship started with drinks and some food and alittle fooling around before we parted ways, so obviously sex is not a requirement for either, yet, neither is refraining. It’s all up to you and what you and the other  person are comfortable with.

Don’t let them persuade you into something you may not be ready for, when you are, you’ll know. Do what you think is fun for you and fun for your dating partner.

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It just depends on who you are dating. Some men don’t have issues with women who are sexual, and prefer it. Some men start thinking if you had sex with them, you have sex with anyone.

Also, there are men that enjoy a challenge of get in your pussy and they like working for it.  So, I really don’t think there are any hard rules that apply to everyone.

But, in general, if you have sex with someone immediately you are taking a risk that it won’t last. If you’re not comfortable with it, then don’t.

Many women become more involved with a man emotionally if they have sex and the guy was able to give them orgasm. Orgasm clouds their thinking. They can’t see the guy for who they are, make excuses for any red flags and want to fix problems.

I personally don’t think it’s a good idea to have sex with someone immediately, if you want a long term relationship . If anything, by not having sex you would find out what his true intentions are.

I think you should focus on what you want. If you just want to have  sex, then have sex … To have casual sex and find casual sex partners, you are at the right place.

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You can do what you feel comfortable with. If your attractive to the person then go for it. There is no rule that says you
must or must not have sex on the first meet. However do remember that this is a sex website, so most are just looking for sex here.

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It seems that there is a lack of Ladies that enjoy being rimmed. Maybe they just do not like to come right out and admit they like their asses licked????

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Whatever it is, that is their decision and, theirs alone. It`s called preferences and we all have them.

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Or maybe they just DON’T enjoy being rimmed! Or maybe they do enjoy anal sex too!

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Also some women are not into anal sex, and licking may be perceived as a first step towards that, so they balk at it.

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I thoroughly enjoy being rimmed. That’s just me, though.  I enjoy being rimmed and some ladies enjoy doggy. I don’t particularly. It all depends on that person’s preferences.

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Some like it and some don’t like. Simple as that. I happen to love it and can have multiple orgasms while being licked.
But, this activity must be followed by some good long and hard fucking.

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The anus is the most privet of places i wouldn’t let any one play with my arse until I had real trust with them.
I would guess most women are the same. You build trust over time not by reading a profile.

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One should always read “additional questions” on a person’s profile. There’s a question on there about rimming and what a person thinks about it.

A lot of times when I’m giving oral to a woman I’ll slip my tongue into her asshole and give her some rimming. Most
enjoy it very much.

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I think most women don’t admit much to liking anything anal because they think their partner will think less of them.
My wife love having her ass licked and played with a little even begs for it at times, but when questioned about it she
is embarrassed, thinking it makes here slutty.

To me there is nothing better then getting the slutty side out of your partner, just takes time to build trust.

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I think some just may be too uptight to even try it but I know there are quite a few who would if they just would open up
to new experiences. Try it ladies, you might like it!

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I would say that if they say they don’t like it, take their word for it. It’s not for everybody.

If it’s essential for you to get your tongue tucked deeply into a nether hole in order to get off, find somebody compatible with you rather than try to force the issue on somebody who comes right out and honestly tells you; Thanks, but no thanks.

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I don’t like penis in my but hole and never had anal sex, but I do enjoy rimming. For some people its just not their thing & its understandable.

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Why don’t you make  a poll about who was and was not being rimmed? And who liked it and who did not.

I think that’s between the women and their sex partner or lovers. Being rimmed is can be a lot of fun for women, but not much fun for men.

Who would want to kiss the guy’s mouth after you he had his tongue it up someone else ass. Not me for sure.

You need to change condom if you go from anal sex to vaginal sex. What will you do with your tongue…?

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How important is oral sex to you? And what would you do if you don’t get it? __________ I am a man and for me is very important.  I would try to explain to my partner, that giving is very important. If she does not want to go down on me, that is fine, but to [...]

How important is oral sex to you? And what would you do if you don’t get it?

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I am a man and for me is very important.  I would try to explain to my partner, that giving is very important. If she does not want to go down on me, that is fine, but to eat her pussy out is greatest turn on for me. I can spend down there a lot of time.

If it does not involve pain or danger or some really major issue, a partners should try and do things that the other really really likes on occasion, even if it is not their thing.

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In the scale of things it’s important – but not as important as great kissing.

If my partner didn’t like to engage in it at all, neither receiving or giving, it would make me question the future of the relationship, because I’d feel we were missing pleasure that is part of varied range of sexual expression.

If it was simply something that she liked only once in a while, I’d probably adapt to her rhythm. It’s only pleasure when it’s mutually enjoyed.

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I love giving head, and getting it, but would probable live without it if I had to, I think, maybe not. I just don’t know, because I can get and I give as much as much I want.

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I never really loved a girl going down on me myself, until I met my true love. Maybe she is just so good at it, but I believe it is the pureness of her intentions that makes me being able to enjoy!

I love going down on a girl and driving her to the point of orgasm, where she looses the control of her body and feeling the waves of pleasure flowing through her. My sweetie is more penetration oriented vs. clitoral stimulation.

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So when I go down on her every once in a while, I make sure to use a vibrator on her at the same time! Anything to make her enjoy sex. I want to give her the greatest orgasm at any time…

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I won’t fuck you if I can’t suck you!  There is definitely something wrong if I can not get a close look a to your penis…

Giving oral is very important to me. I’m all about flavors and sensations. Men and women who taste good, are a huge turn on!

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On a scale of 1-10 I’d say oral sex needing is about a 9.8!  But then again I’d also say that my need to give it is also pretty high as well about a 9 too.  I’m also a very “mouthy” kinda person (big shock  lol ) love to kiss, lick and explore a lovers body….

I guess it’s not necessary every  time, like in a quickie in the kitchen during Sunday lunch coking… but it’s still pretty important. And extremely enjoyable!

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Receiving Oral, is not a priority for me though. It’s alright, but it’s definitely not a necessity by any means.

Much rather give it then get it!

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For me oral sex is very important…  The fact I’m not getting any in my current relationship… made me go and get it from outside the relationship.

With out oral sex I admit I am unhappy, unfulfilled, and discontent about it all.  I feel we might as well be considered just friends than a so called a couple…

Sounds kinda shallow and superficial but i admit, lack of sexual intimacy has definitely become an issue for me…

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Oh Yes! Oral sex is  important. But if she does not want to give it or receive it, then it’s her choice.

On the other hand, with men it would be a surprise. I’ve yet to meet a horny guy that said no to getting his cock sucked.

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One trouble you will find is that while swinging is a woman’s world in sense of decision making and center of attention, it is a man’s world in sense of numbers. One is a cause the other an effect.

First thing that will happen to you as a swinging couple is you will find a very limited number of couples you both can agree upon. Many couples are always looking to date upwards. This means that a pair of 7/10′s are always looking for the 8′s. Guess what this means? youll never date cause the 8′s are not looking for you.

On occasion you will find a good match, and thats the magic of the lifestyle as you will have effectively given yourselves a relationship of 4 with the chemistry of 2.

Now the rarity of this match means youll have voids of time when you may want to play. The lifestyle will mean dozens of single men contacting you about joining in an MMF. If you are a member of Adultfriendfinder.com, you can expect about 5 single male pen*s pictures in your inbox for every couple.

Now many couples will invite one from time to time, like we do, but you need to either get used to this inbalance as a man or make peace with it somehow…cause you will not find the amount of unicorns you thought you would for yourself.

My wife has a new boyfriend, they go out together, a new twist for us, which takes getting use to. While this has opened the door to me to pursue any women I want, it still is hard to balance the desire for her with the competition I face for the few unicorns.

The solution? Is to recruit unicorns. You need to skip the looking and discuss the fact that the only way to get single girls home to join you will be to pick up girls like you were 21 again. Vanilla girls you meet out at stores and, my favorite, my wifes friends are your best bet to get a long term friend to keep the balance.