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Couple for Couple – mw4mw (NMB/MB/Wilm) 40yr
We are a WC looking for another couple with a bi female. We are DDD free. Looking for girl/girl play and then guys joining in with their own girl. No M on M He is striaght. Looking to do this soon, more than likely Saturday nite.

We have been venturing to some of the clubs of Florida lately and the girl-girl swinger population seems out of control.

A girl-girl swinger or swingers profile means that the wives are looking for other girls to play with bisexually while the husbands enjoy the live show. Most often the other husband is not allowed to touch at all or only in the most limited way.

If you ask me, and you didn’t, im not sure how this is even “swinging”, but of course to each there own is the backbone of the lifestyle.

This entire lifestyle choice seems to break one major rule of the lifestyle which is that bedroom fun is something to share together in an unselfish way. Ladies, while your husband may tell you he loves watching you please another woman, what hes not saying is that he would love it more if he could help.

We had once had a unicorn when we lived up north that was from Miami. She had warned us the scene was very different here in regards to the social dynamic of the couples in the lifestyle. She had said in Florida it was like fishing, which means the older husband sends the sexy young wives out to find other wives and reel em back in for a girl-girl only swinging playtime.

Im sorry to report she was correct in this description.

Now, this is not to say its only girl girl, swinging is still the same anywhere you go, but there is far more girl-girl “guys watch” couples here in the Florida scene.

Sounds like a great problem to have you may think? Not really.

The problem arrises that we are a full swap couple, we play all different ways, but we prefer to hit a home run with a couple where everyone wins. So now we are in the clubs like Trapeze or Miami Velvet or simply browsing through sexy profiles online. Now we think we found a hot couple till we read the preferences and they are girl girl only.

Again, you say this is their choice and I can’t say word one? You are right about that for sure, but everything in moderation. When emails start coming in from couples looking for single girls only over and over it begins to feel like walking on eggshells at the clubs. The rules are the same everywhere but now a full swap couple has to step lightly and be concerned about finding out at the last second that he is to wait on the sidelines.

Am I ranting a little? yes for sure I am. But is the girl-girl scene pretty big ddown here in the Floridas? Again a yes. And do they have to make it clear early and often and not be offended when we walk away from this one sided hookup? A final yes.

I found my wife dancing and exchanging touches with a very sexy latin girl in her 20′s this past week at a club. The husband was great, friendly sitting at the bar with me and toasting our sexy wives. To a trained eye in the lifestyle like ours we both knew what this couple was looking for and it wasn’t the same as us. her husband was in his late 40′s, and not my wife’s type anyway but also seemed determined to step back and encourage his girl with mine. It was super sexy, they were great, but my wife also knew that she is not about me sitting at the bar excited and sighing.

Another couple apprached my wife as soon as this other girl ran off to the bathroom, a sexy blonde and her good looking husband. My wife was dancing with her the same, she signaled me over to them and we all had a little dance floor fun. Now the first girl returns and her husband and her watch and wait then leave in rejection. This is my example of everyone having the best intention, everone finding each other sexy, but at the same time we were like a horse and a zebra trying to mate. We looked the same, ran in the same field but are not compatiable.

Everyone have fun, we like to play in every way, but with everyone looking for something different in the club you have to feel it out very quickly and understand when they like you alot but are not into the same things for excitment nor have the same comfort levels in sharing.

Question about her first MFM threesome. I have a question, related to the previous post. In that post she talked about their first hotel sex party.  She talked about how she felt and how her husband felt. It is not even a question…. I would like to know, from the husband; What it felt like watching another man make his wife orgasm, maybe with  screaming orgasm.

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Well, I am not an author but I will try to do my best and I will try to explain you what have happened and what I think about it. Before we go any further I have to tell you, I did not keep my eye on my wife all night long. I was busy to do other things… However at one point in the night shew had her first MFM threesome with me and with on other man. And it was something like I never experienced before.  It was  very high of pure sexual excitement.

I felt no jealousy because my wife had sex with man.  In fact, I’m not sure if I understand why many people do feel extreme jealousy if their mate has sex with someone else.  I suppose if my wife would have let some man fuck her without my knowledge, I would have been upset.  But, I don’t think I would have been mad because somebody screwed  her, (or she screwed some guy).  I would have been pissed because I didn’t get the chance to get my share of that great sexual excitement.

When my wife was laying there on a sofa humping her pussy up onto the extra guy’s thrusting cock, I was actually
pleased that she was obviously enjoying it.

And, gentlemen, if you’ve never slid your fingers and cock  up into your lady’s hot little pussy immediately after some man has pumped her a while,  you’ve definitely missed a special treat.  Let her enjoy the feel of having two different cock, two different men with different love making technique…

If you ever try, you will experience the pleasure of that hot wetness in her freshly-fucked pussy immediately after he pulls out.

Gentlemen, some of you may have enjoyed the rare pleasure of watching your wife or girlfriend get thoroughly sucked and fucked by someone other than you.  But, ladies, I hope you understand it is difficult for a man to express the extraordinary enjoyment, involved in watching his lady lady have sex with another man.

While my wife was laying there letting the other man suck her and the when she had intercourse with him, the pleasure she felt was largely physical.

The pleasure what I got and what usually the husbands get in a MFM threesome  is more emotional. The deep emotional satisfaction of seeing a look of pure sexual pleasure in her face, while she was enjoying a good orgasm is literally indescribable.

As much more intense was her orgasm, as much more I enjoyed it. I know because I felt it, too.

When I really looked at my wife laying there on that sofa with her arms wrapped around that guy and humping her little pussy up onto his thrusting cock, the intense pleasure I experienced was much more then a mere orgasm.

I knew my wife’s pussy was feeling better than it had probably ever felt before, and I was so happy for her I could barely contain myself.  And, when that guy made her cum, all I could do was look into her eyes and savor her pleasure.

There is the visual aspect and the non-visual aspect of a wife or girlfriend having sex with another man.  By that I mean there is certainly a particular pleasure for a man in watching another man make his lady scream and cream.  That’s the visual aspect.

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There is also a special pleasure for a man just knowing his wife or girlfriend is getting her pussy played with, sucked or fucked…  without actually being able to see it happen.  That’s especially true if the man can hear it happening, but can’t see it.

My  advice…  As you first begin watching some guy lick and kiss your wife’s lips, neck, breasts, and stomach, chances are you could immediately be filled with jealousy.  I mean if you came home and caught your wife doing exactly what I talked about above, you’d probably shoot both of them.  Especially if she was responding with enjoyment to his action.

You simply have to accept the fact that the guy playing with your wife will make her feel very good (and if he experienced lover he will …  maybe better than you do.  This has absolutely nothing to do with your ability as a lover.  It’s a simple fact of nature.  Something new and different will often feel better than something she is used to.

So, when you see your wife having a screaming  orgasm from an incredible pleasure as she has her first orgasm with another man, don’t fear that she will now not be satisfied by you again.  In fact, she no doubt will enjoy higher levels of sexual pleasure with you simply because you are the one who has provided the opportunity for her to experience this variety…  and these special pleasures.

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Do girls like anal sex? Every time I lucky enough to find a girl to have anal sex with, she loves it but when ask in general;  Do girls like anal sex? Their reply is no. Is it maybe  because they are shy? __________ No…. its because for many it is an unpleasant experience. It is painful if [...]

Do girls like anal sex?

Every time I lucky enough to find a girl to have anal sex with, she loves it but when ask in general;  Do girls like anal sex? Their reply is no. Is it maybe  because they are shy?

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No…. its because for many it is an unpleasant experience. It is painful if not approached with care and done by someone that knows what he is doing.

For many too it it taboo, and deg-raiding.

Do you like receiving anal sex? Have you tried it how it is fill like? Before you ask any more women about anal sex, go and get an 8 inch dildo and get your ass filled up with it…..  If for you it is a wonderful experience then you can keep asking women, but if it is painful and unpleasant then you have no right to keep asking a woman for anal sex.

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In my experience many girls like it and many others don’t mind it. I think girls who do not like anal sex, might like it,  if they try, but say they no for anal sex, because they can’t get over the fact that hole was created for other then shovel a dick in.

They think is disgusting and dirty and they have a point, because it can be really messy.  My partner loves it, bit I have to  really turn her on to let me enter to her golden hole.

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I am an anal novice …. I have experienced anal sex with three different lovers one much more than the others, not in the same time (wink). I loved all three experiences as the anal orgasm is better and the intensity of the orgasm is greater than vaginal or clitoral. However it need a lot of concentration to have orgasm from anal sex.

It was because of my partner large  thick cock. I never felt so fulfilled before.   I got to experience anal which was considerate and careful meeting my every need. Since that I can get enough anal !

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The guy really need to know what he does, otherwise it can be a bloody – messy disaster… My partner was an experienced lover and he prepared me really well.  He made me relaxed and he used a lot of silicon based personal moisturizer.

I am sure, anal sex is not for everyone. Not even at the giving end.

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Anal sex ok, but it’s nothing for me as a women compared with vaginal sex…  With a man who isn’t gentle,  does not takes his time, or has too large of a penis, anal sex is no  fun at all.

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Anal sex is very psychological. I think is very traumatic for some ladies, mainly for younger ladies. It can be kind of pleasant for others but the only way for orgasm is spice up anal sex with vaginal and – or clitoral play.

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It could be that women are shy about admitting they like anal sex. It is considered by many to be kinky or taboo sex. Therefore maybe not easily admitted to as something they like or enjoy for fear others will think they are perverted or strange. But times are changing and i think many more things are openly discussed now than even a few years ago.  So shame of at least discussing it is going away.

Others say they don’t like it just because its their ass and asses to them are not for sex. Being shy has nothing to do with it.

But I would say in my experience more are just not into it from a comfort level. For them it doesn’t feel good or at least not good enough for them to enjoy an orgasm that way. So they tell you, they don’t like it.

There are exceptions, some women enjoy it very much and have explosive orgasms while doing it. If you are a male and enjoy anal sex, then you are lucky when you find someone that enjoys it also.

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Anal sex can be good when done right which means she must be very relaxed other wise it is extremely painful. Yes there is the taboo side of it being dirty but get it right and it can be great.

With the right man at the right time (that is not every time), I love it but still get paranoid about the mess that can occur.

It seems that most guys think anal should be when the woman is on hands and knees but the first lover I managed it with taught me to relax face down in the pillows with my legs together. Once I was relaxed enough he could enter. The experience is exquisite but I still need clitoral stimulation to be able to cum.

Just remember that every woman is different and what works for one won’t work for another. Also when doing a girl or woman in her golden hole, your action should be  should be an act of love, or list act of love sex,  not a trophy to be able to say you had anal.

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Meeting for threesomes
I’ve always insist on meeting the couple at the same time, just to make sure they are BOTH into it. Some men want to meet first, to see if I’m OK to let near their wife (or partner), I understand, but I don’t like the idea of the woman not having a say in the arrangements [...]

I’ve always insist on meeting the couple at the same time, just to make sure they are BOTH into it.

Some men want to meet first, to see if I’m OK to let near their wife (or partner), I understand, but I don’t like the idea of the woman not having a say in the arrangements as well.

What do you think? Can you let me know?

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I believe the woman should have the final say…period. They can meet separately, then all together, but the woman’s got the final answer.

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Both ideas you suggest I’d offer: Let hubby meet me first alone. Smart. Then the next day or two let hubby talk to wife and perhaps second meeting the wife will show up.

I’d like a couple that they KNOW ME well enough to TRUST ME. With being alone with the husband or the wife. Not a permanent relationship though as long as the couple still is interested in me. We have been together enough to do a lot of erotic and sometimes kinky things.

I know that people get tired of each other after awhile. I totally agree and respect that too, when I told:

“Thanks for the past few weeks of fun though we want to try and find new people. Please don’t contact us again.”

Always remember: You are a GUEST to the couple. Nothing more and nothing less. Don’t succumb to getting into fights with the man or woman over what to do. You fuck up and that 1 time is enough for them to make it your last time, in other word, they will kick your ass out of their party!

I’d love to join a couple being a single guy though I doubt that would ever happen to me. Couple can be guy + girl or guy + guy but I still have NO PERSONAL EXPERIENCE in any and I am open to anything (between two different sexes).

I just have read a lot about it and feel I’m emotionally prepared to do that if the day ever comes. That’s the only reason why I post about it.

Does using a web cam for the couple so they can see you and see you in action help make it easier for the couple too? (I think so.)

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I believe all parties should meet before having a threesome. Why? Because one or all of the parties might not have chemistry, or something else might go awry.

Case in point: My current bf wanted to have a threesome with another woman. I found a woman who initially seemed interested in having a threesome with us.

We all met at her house. We talked about the threesome, and, lo and behold, the other woman revealed she is a lesbian, that she wanted only me and that she could not possibly disrobe in front of my boyfriend. The threesome never happened because I’m not a lesbian and because my boyfriend said it was a no go.

I think it is IMPERATIVE that all parties meet prior to having a threesome.

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Well, I am  not too sure if being a female makes a difference but from past experience when I’ve met couples (and I had only met two) I met them both at the same time.

Since your a guy it maybe different. While I think its best to meet BOTH… the other guy maybe a little bit possessive or something. Maybe that’s not the right word.

But he just wants to see first whose gonna be handling his woman first.  If he likes it… than it goes onto the next phase… of seeing if the woman would be into you too…

It is their threesome, their rules. Take it or leave it…

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Maybe that is the way she wants it… Maybe she trusts her husband’s first judgment of the man. But I would definitely require a second meeting with both because you have a say as to whether or not you find her attractive in person.  A threesome takes takes 3 person!

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Never take one for the team so to speak. My husband will always screen the ads. He knows what I like and what I want in a man.

Wont meet with anyone unless we have talked several times and even after the first meeting we wont go all the way. We might play a little, but no vaginal penetration, no first date sex.

Sometimes it may take 4 or 5 meetings before we will have that threesome.

We usually don’t meet single guys, but there are always excepts…  If the guy is super nice, super polite and well hung, we might go for it…

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You should respond to the  couple as soon as they  email you, and send them a link or info to join your web cam.  They can talk to you, they can see you, so who ever is go for the first meeting will not make different.

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One day my husband and I had just decided we wanted to get into the swingers lifestyle. Of course we talked about it months and months, but one day we decided to do something more then just talking.

The reason behind our decision was; We’d hit one of those plateau that often happen in good long-term relationships and we figured getting down with a cute hot horny couple would get our sexual energy back.

We found a couple’s ad here in this site. Okay we found more then one ad, but this one cat our attention. Their profile stated it, they threw monthly themed sex parties. We emailed them, telling a little about ourselves. We exchanged emails few times and photos also and we met them in a quiet restaurant at the coming weekend. They were a couple like us, normal everyday people.

At next day we have received their invitation and the address to their next sex party, which was organized in a high class hotel.

Since my hubby is a really quiet guy, between that email and our first party day, He and I talked endlessly about what it might be like. We told each other stories. I told him about how there would be three women for every guy. How two of them would drag him off and strip him naked. He would have his choice between pierced pussy and shaved pussy, large loose pussy and small tight pussy.

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He would be forced to cum several times in the evening to keep everyone happy. Big breasted red-heads would beg to wrap their over sized lips around his fat cock and blow him. Tight, college coeds would put their perky breasts in his face and beg him to suck them.

He’d have women on their knees, women bent over his lap, cunts up, legs splayed. There would be so much pussy all around him the air would be thick with the smell of them, like a fish pier.

Though he is shy, he loves pussy as much as any healthy guy and he is very horny most of the times.

I don’t think I have to spell it out…. but in the case if you are wondering, I let you know, our first sex party wasn’t a party as I described above. There wasn’t any college girl and the hotel suite did not smell like fish.

However there was 5 couples with us, close to our age and my shy hubby managed to have more then few orgasm with three women. About me, I wont get into any details, but I had a blast…

The best part of the party happened at home after the party. We screwed each other for hours and hours. We felt we are on honeymoon again….

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The wife and I will be heading to Vegas this coming week 5/11-5/14. We have been very interested getting it on with others but we have yet to do so. Would you recommend an inexperience couple like us go visit a swingers club out in Vegas? __________ I’ve tried a swingers club. The club was OK and the [...]

The wife and I will be heading to Vegas this coming week 5/11-5/14. We have been very interested getting it on with others but we have yet to do so.

Would you recommend an inexperience couple like us go visit a swingers club out in Vegas?

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I’ve tried a swingers club. The club was OK and the people were very friendly, but I did not find it to exiting. I am not an exhibitionist and in that club everyone could see want you are and who you are doing…

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Anything you do in Vegas is going to cost you money. More fun more money. A lot of fun will cost you a lot of money…. Do your homework and browse the local profiles and find out what’s there for you.

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If a money is not an issues for you, then go for it! Most swinger’s clubs will let you attend and watch (of course with limit), with no pressure to participate. If you like what you see, then join in on the fun.

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Swinger clubs are not free for all fuckfests. Many people go there and do not swap (especially if they like being watched).

If you go remember not to just sit at a table (this is taken as sign of disinterest-get up and mingle). You are NOT required to do anything with anyone. No means no and those that act pushy are removed from the club.

If your relationship is stable and you both can accept it as an experiment, I say give it a try. Hope it will be as fun for you as it is for us.

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You can always try one, it does not mean you must play. A good club will let you watch, have drinks and just fun, but do not pressure you to participate. However it will cost you. Better club, better members, more rules, more money.

Cheap club, lose rules, and a lot of drunks… The choice is yours.

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I would go and check it out. It will probably be much different than you are imagining. Most are very low pressure and you only have to do what you want.

The second you feel uncomfortable you can always leave. But you could at least say you tried it.

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You say that you are an inexperienced couple…Well I think you are going to be educated going to a swingers club in Vegas…

You are going to love it or hate it…I say jump on in and get your feet wet…Do your homework and find the one that suits your needs the best…

You might have the best night and the best sex in your life. You will never know if you never try.

Have a great time…

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I say do it. The only way you can get experience is by getting experience.

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Go for it! If you don’t feel comfortable doing anything you can just watch and learn. I am sure the club will make you horny like you never been before!

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How do you want to make her night?  How to satisfy your female sex partner. How to give an orgasm for a woman.

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Married people do not plan to have sex with their spouse. It’s just supposed to happen. Put the kids in bed, sit around a little, have a drink or two, maybe watch some TV program and spontaneously make love. How nice it is to even talk about it…

But if you are a married man, probably you had one or more experience, when your spouse told you, leave me alone, I have a headache, or I am tired, or I think I am getting my period, or I am not into it today, or the kids aren’t sleeping, or I have bladder infection, etc.

It can get even more complicated  if you would like to have fun with somebody else other than your spouse. You want to be sure, everything will go nice and smooth, because, you have only one first change. If you screw it, you might not get a second change…  You need to plan everything.

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Just because your wife have an excuse not to have sex with you, it doesn’t mean that she are not willing to play with others as a couple…  You can play alone or as a couple, but you still have to have some kind of plan.

For example you have to know, how far you will go. I am not talking about walking distance. I am talking about sex. How far, go all the way, or just into soft play, maybe some oral sex.

If you go all the way, you might need to find a place in advance. You have made the decision. You found the right partner, ot you and your spouse found the right partners. You know it, and your spouse knoes it too, both of you want to have some kinky sex plays.

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You and you new friend already met once and there are a large amount of chemistry. You do not mind to go further and looks like they are into everything that fill good..

You planned your date carefully. You made your home work and you are prepared  for all situation, for all surprises.  You have a motel or room, condoms, candles and you are ready to go.

Unfortunately this is just 50% of you plan. The other 50% is up to her. The other half is depends on your wife or on your female sex partner. Who will be that sex partner is wont change anything, but if you want to make her night to a night, that she will always remeber then you need to know few more things.

The most impotent one, you need a competitive sex partner. The second, you need to be good in sex. If you aren’t good enough, you wont be successful in recreational casual sex. If you are a  good sex partner, the news will fly and women will contact you…

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Soft swap swinger couples
We were wondering what exactly does soft swap mean to you? I am talking about sexual activity… We are not a full swap couple. But recently we have had some couples offer to soft swap instead. Just wanted to get some ideas of what we might be getting ourselves into. _________ Soft swap mean, the couple not into [...]

We were wondering what exactly does soft swap mean to you? I am talking about sexual activity… We are not a full swap couple. But recently we have had some couples offer to soft swap instead. Just wanted
to get some ideas of what we might be getting ourselves into.

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Soft swap mean, the couple not into full swap. They are not hard core swingers, they are not into hard core swingers sex parties, they take it easy and have limited fun.

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Soft swap is stand for swapping partners for fore play… Penetration, or I can call it intercourse is only done with your respective partners… This play is usually done in the same room, same bed with the present of your respective partner.

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You can pretty much make up your own rules and you should have rules. There is no penetration in soft swap unless with your own partner, some say no kissing and some say it’s fine.

The ladies can be together and the men can perform oral on the omen. If you’re going to soft swap, make sure you know the boundaries before hand, much easier then having to deal with a judgment call at the spur of the moment.

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Couples get together and engage in sexual activity together, but they only have sex with their own partners so soft swap mean — no partner swapping.

But a lot of watching does go on, and possibly some touching. A touchy matter best negotiated in advance.

The hard line for soft swinging is no intercourse between non-mates. A wider definition says that any time a couple brings in a third party, they are swinging (threesomes). But in this case the third party would only watch or be watched.

Also some couple soft swing, no penetration but oral sex is okay for them.

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I would have thought it was kept mainly to oral sex or touching excitement & fun rather than full swap, include vaginal or anal penetration. It happen in the same room or don’t, will not make any difference.

They are my thoughts: Its a good way to find out if you are cut out for the swapping scene. Are you really ready for it or are you having reservations?

Can you handle seeing your partner being pleasured by someone else?

I’m sure you have thought about it & talked about it long & hard. Good luck & and have a lot of fun.

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A soft swap can be anything from just watch and be watched to full on play with the other couple but it always stops short of intercourse with someone other than your partner.

Soft swap is virtually always done all in the same room. The amount of contact between non-partners can be anything from nothing to all but intercourse. It can include oral sex or not, kissing or not, finger penetration, finger fuck or not.

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I would agree with most of the above listed replies… Soft swap is mostly touching, feeling and caressing.. Penetrating your partner rather than your playmates.

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Soft swap would be for foreplay, or for watching other couples or being watched while you and your partner are having intercourse.

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A soft swap can be anything except penetration. Mostly its about getting together flirting, touching, feeling, kissing … Its about the feel of being with somebody else and playing with his/her sensually and erotically. Some options can be like playing strip poker or watching XXX film.

The point is in soft swap, to get really turn yourself on and the go for the top with your mate or permanent partner.

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No Penetration…other than with your respective partner! We prefer soft swap! Like watching my wife giving a blow job for other men, also enjoy watching the other couple having intercourse.

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I believe it’s best to use words suited to the situation and not rely on pre-thought up one liners. I think most females
hear many standard one liners before they get out of school.

But if you do an online search, you might find some that the woman you face may have not heard, you might make her laugh, and that can be a good thing. But if you say something you heard before and thought it was clever, and the woman heard that bullshit before, you may eliminate your chances for hooking up for sex. Be creative and respond to the circumstances at the time.

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I’ve lost my virginity… would you share yours with me?

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What’s a girl like you , doing in a place like this?

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I have only once a one night stand and he was a band teacher. He told me:  “Your lips were made to play the trumpet”.

I couldn’t do anything but laugh and had an enjoyable conversation. After that he played on my body like a musical instrument. He was my best sex partner that I ever had…

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Get your coat, you’ve pulled, or if I put my hand on your cock, will it grow on me?

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Not that they work, but a couple of cute ones I’ve heard; Do you wash your pants in Windex, because I sure can see myself in them?

You must be an overdue Library book, because you’ve got fine written all over you!

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The problem with one-liners is that you have to say them to the right person at the right time in the right way. You have to improvise immediately, when the time is right. It is your first impression, but this is your first chance too to have sex. You do not have second chance, to have a good first change, and you wont have second chance to catch the right time, to. If you missed it, you can be sure, you wont have a one night stand. Maybe some other time.

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Well here I am. Do you want to test me yourself? What is in your mind? What do you want to tell me? Okay I got it, no talking just fucking…. I am in, you can bring your buddy too, I can handle both of you!

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There is only one thing what would look good on you… It’s me? Do you wanna try?

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Male Female Male (MFM) Threesome questions
I have so many questions about FMF threesomes… types and threesome  activities. In my recent researches there seem to be three principal types: 1. Cock-holding, a kink wherein the husband is humiliated or otherwise belittled by having his wife taken in front of his very eyes while he, e.g., remains fully dressed. This does not appeal to [...]

I have so many questions about FMF threesomes… types and threesome  activities.

In my recent researches there seem to be three principal types:

1. Cock-holding, a kink wherein the husband is humiliated or otherwise belittled by having his wife taken in front of his very eyes while he, e.g., remains fully dressed. This does not appeal to me. I am not about D&S
or subordination kinks.

2. The Full Bi, wherein the second male is expected to get it on with both the guy and and the girl. This also does not appeal to me.

3. Hetero Threesome, wherein the woman is the center of attention. The guys dote on her & don’t particularly mess with each other. This is more my cup off tea.

There are many variations on each theme, of course.

Any tips on getting started? What are the key tricks to learn & traps to avoid? What are the appropriate search terms to use when looking for info? Thanks for any insight.

Local women looking for casual sex

Local women looking for casual sex

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I do have only just a suggestion or maybe just a comment…. about your cock holding threesome. There are many couples, where in the husband do not participate in, for what ever reason that they have, but he is not humiliated. Maybe the scenario like that is their erotic dream erotic fantasy….

But that kind of threesomes are not threesomes. Threesomes are when two of the same gender serve the other gender’s sexual need. For example two guys have sex with a woman at the same time. The same time makes it threesome, but if one of the guy is watching fully dressed, that is not a threesome.

If they have sex with her one by one, then that is sex with multiple partners, but not a threesome.

Usually shy men can not perform while a third person, like a husband watch them. If you can do his wife while he watch you, then you would not be a good threesome partner. Maybe they just want to test your love making knowledge, maybe they just want to know how good sex partner are you, and if you past the test, then the real fun will begin…

If you do not like male male female threesomes then don’t go there. read the profile carefully. There are differences, between MMF threesomes and MFM or FMF threesomes.

MMF is when two men entertain a woman and can be some kind of sex play between the men too. It can happen many times, because she request it, not because the guys are gays or bisexuals.

FMF is two women try to give mind blowing orgasm for a man. This is str8 sexual activity, no erotic play between the ladies.

FFM is again two ladies and a man, but in this case, the ladies play with each other. It can be a str8 man a curious woman and a lesbian women, so our man might have intercourse with one of the ladies only. In FMF threesome he have to bang both ladies, or better to say, both ladies want to have vaginal intercourse with our man.

The is a FFM threesome, when the ladies are bi sexual. This scenario are at the top of them men’s erotic dream, erotic fantasy. In this case, the men can have vaginal penetration with both ladies, plus the ladies will have girl on girl play too.

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If I were you, I would read the profiles, as it suggested above. Read and contact couples, who prefer MFM threesome, which is your #3.

However if you do not want a man touch, threesome is not for you. It can happen in the heat of the moment, even accidentally. The other guys can touch your intimate body parts, and it wont make him gay and wont make you bi sexual.

The key question and the answer for your question is in the girls. What they want from that two men. Duple penetration? Is if she wants DP…?

That’s when your almost guaranteed, to man to man touch, because there is no way to get it done with out it.

Try one (I mean a threesome) with open mind, if you haven’t yet, and you will see what extra she is looking for… and you will see you can handle or don’t. Maybe threesome is not for you. You wont be a first man, who can not handle it. Many men can not even get hard at the present of a other man…

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Just watch the body language with the crowds. Vets (unknown to us at first) have been with alot more people at the party or Estate than you may know. I am not judging, its just a fact that the circle of friends have broken down alot of walls between them over the years.

For these people, the social rules have changed between each other.

We are still somewhat new, but as these changes become apparent we are sure to share with you. Our hopes in these little revelations is to shorten the learning curve for the next couple.

We have called it kinda “fair game rule”. As to say as you get to know couples you see out the rules change. The couples you have danced and flirted with and shown a attraction to, you now will find yourself comfortable with the “waist up”.

That guy you see alot and like alot may kiss your wife, put an arm around her..etc. It is part of being nice socially.

When your wife has kissed and danced in almost nothing with another man, and you too like him to the point of comfort it opens up freedoms. These are so trivial in the swinging life that anyone of experience would find this silly to even mention. To a new swinger or vanilla thinking about the lifestyle, this may seem more relevent.

I have watched my wife dance, grind and share roaming hands with a guy we see out every weekend. She likes him alot, and I too think he’s a great guy. We have not advanced our relationship with him and his wife because I do not like her in that way. Since there is no “four way match” and neither of us play alone, this is doomed to be the end. It is fine that this is the end of our exachanges, it is a fact of swinging.

But once you have friends with comfort and have played together in certain ways the normal social etiquite change as well.

Our friend on the dance floor is a “waist up fair game friend” now. This means, he knows we are ok with anything waist up and respectful with my wife. He also knows thats the level of friendship it’s going to be with him.

Now we recently turned a waist up couple into a full swap couple. We finally sealed the deal with a hispanic wife and her husband and had a great time. We like them on alot of levels and played all night at a hotel near our house. We also see this couple almost weekly when we go out.

We are now waiting to see what rule this makes when we see them. Waist up fun for sure in public discrete places, but maybe more. We recently played apart somewhat to test it out. We wanted to see if this was something we could be comfortable with. My wife played upstairs awhile with a male friend she had been with before. This is an example of the changing rules. I am comfortable with the male, and he is respectful so it is natural to be ok with much more. He now knows that he is free to be playful in a more open way now that he is a social friend and someone we have both okay’d with being more whenever we all get together.

Part of sharing your raltionship in swinging is sharing an air of comfort. When a husband or wife doesnt bat an eye in these situations he shows his like for the other husband or wife. The lack or tension and total comfort in social and play is a high compliment.

I asked where he went with the plan to find him away from the table and tell him how this meet wasn’t a coicidence, and the Veronica and I wanted to play with them both badly.

He came back before I cold stand, and had a locker key on his wrist. I heard him say to the 3rd couple “we can go upstairs now and just play side by side?”.

This suggested that one or both of them are just soft play or watcher couples.

He then added, you guys should come too to us and the single girl. We popped out of our seats as this night kept working ut perfect. Within 20 feet i noticed it was just Jeff, Amanda, Veronica and I walking to go up to the play rooms. He said the others didn;t like to play so publicaly and wouldn’t be joining.  I knew in my head this was yet another amazing break and Veronica would be so happy to have Jeff to herself.

We got upstairs, undressed and got in towels.

My wife had new pink lace panties on and Amanda had black panties with pink bows that I later found out you pull and it all comes off.

We wrapped in towels and went to check the main playroom or Nexxus room. All the beds were filled with people having sex or playing and the entire room was pretty packed.

My wife wouldn’t play in there anyway.

The private rooms were closed so we settled on the bunk bed room which is two king bed together with a ladder and two king beds on the top. The top is what we chose which is a bit brighter and easier for people to stand in the open door and watch us play. My wife and Amanda started by sucking on Jeff and I, each couple playing alone. I was still under the impression this may be a just watch couple. Amanda was at this club for the first time and was somewhat new to the lifestyle, so i assumed she may be the reason to play soft.

My wife can only suck and play oral so long before she needs to get fucked. Generally 10-15 minutes go by and she better have a man or she will be looking for one. 

She laid on her back and let Jeff lick her pussy. He and Amanda both got their mouths between her legs and she got soaking wet as he was doing a really good job of eating her.

When he came up for air she sucked him some more from her back and had a look on her face I knew. I told Jeff he could fuck her if he wanted to, and he smiled and found a condom. I wasn’t “taking one for the team” because Amanda was a super sexy girl but I also knew Veronica didn’t come this far not to get fucked.

He started out on top of her fucking her slow at first. he had a curved cock which makes my wife cum very often and fast normally and she was enjoying it. she later told me that she just watched his face cause he was so hot it got her off.

She then got on her knees and let him fuck her from behind while she sucked me. her favorite way to get a nice cirved dick is from behind or in the spoon, both make her cum very fast. I am blessed with a wife that cums often and easy.

He fucked her at a fast pace from behind and she moaned through the entire thing.

He then pulled he rhands behind her back and held them there and told her to not let my cock fall out of her mouth. He said to hold on with your mouth while I fuck you fast and hard.

He then fucked her very fast and hard and she couldn’t keep me in her mouth as she moaned.

He fell back onto the bed when he came and she turned to face her wet pussy towards me to continue. I was very swollen and hard, thick and straight. I generally dont get to fuck my wife too hard from behind as it hurts her, but when we play with couples and she is very wet i get to play as hard as I like.

I was very swollen, but had no urge to cum tonight at all I fucked her from behind for the next 10 minutes as hard and fast as she could handle. She was unable to catch her breath but needed a break from the moaning. She crawled over to Jeff and began to suck on him again hoping to make him hard again.

I saw Amanda and Jeff have a conference, giving her the ‘nod’, and she crawled over and began to suck on me at the same time. Jeff and I both enjoyed our cocks in each others wive’s/gf’s mouths for about 10 more minutes and he got hard again while I got close to cumming in her mouth. Amanda liked to wrap her hand tight around my cock and slide her hand and mouth up and down slowly so it was wet, tight and slow. My wife does the same thing when she wants to make a man cum.

My wife got another condom for Jeff and climbed on top of him. he was in love with her huge round perfect tits in his face. amanda had a hot and sexy soft body, but he was loving a DD cup in his face for a change of pace.

Amanda then pulled the bows on her panties and they dropped right off. She handed me a condom that I rolled on. The condom barely fit I was so swollen and thick for the fucking I was finally about to get. She climbed on top of me and felt very tight as the head of cock slid all the way to the back of her. She grinded on me without sliding up and down, she really liked to have it all the way in the entire time just like Veronica does. My wife cums hardest from this exact position. I asked her if it hurt, because it was definately tight going in. I was a bit larger than Jeff, but she seemed to be enjoying that fact. I think now that is what made her crawl over and get permission to fuck me.

While she was riding me and Jeff was now behind my wife again, two couples our age walked in the room. The room had spectators all night, but these two couples were the other two we had been watching downstairs. The one was a short couple, both attractive with nice bodies. The other couple had a tall guy with spiked hair and a hot blonde with huge tits. They stood there with there heads at eye level with our sex. They were maybe 3 feet away from amanda’s ass as she rode up and down on me. They climbed below us. We heard them soft playing briefly before we got loud and started to go fast and hard. My wife had climbed back on top of Jeff and made him cum loud and hard and Amanda was riding me all the way inside her grinding the tip of my cock deep in the back of her pussy. She came quietly in a way that told me she didn’t want her man hearing it so obviously and the sound of her made me cum inside her as well.

She climbed off me with a smile on her face and we looked over to watch Jeff licking my wife yet again. I made eye contact with Amanda and asked her “you like that huh”, she said “yessssss” and I said “meeeeee too”.

A few minutes later the couples below popped up, made a joke or comment about how they thought we were gonna come crashing down on them, smiled and walked out. a few minutes later the taller guy and hot blonde came back in and asked us our ages and names. They were 37 and 29, and turns out Amanda was just turned 23 years old. So she was born while I was in high school….a pretty good catch for a Saturday night.

They asked us to “please please” come back in 2 weeks so they can join us. I think they had a breif and less than stimulating play below us.

I spent the next few days trying to track them down with no names and havn’t been able too. I will write about them in 2 weeks I hope. She has huge excellent tits and apparently loved the sight/sound of Veronica and I while we are fucking.

We laid together laughing for about 10 minutes and Amanda started to lick my chest and work downward to get me hard again. My cock stood right up for my new young friend, and I asked her if she wants me on top or behind, she said “doggy!” with a grin. I think I found her favorite, or she saw how hard Veronica was getting doggy from both guys.

I had her put her face in the mattress and bend her ass all the way in the air and went slow straight and deep. We went at it for awhile while my wife let Jeff rub his cock between her DD tits. Veronica licked the tip of his cock while it penetrated her tits.

After about 10 minutes Amanda came with a quiet squeeze of her thighs and I stopped. I was parched and tired from the hot unventilated room we were in. Both men fell back exhausted and pretty happy with all we had mustered before crashing. Jeff rubbed my wife’s shoulders and tits from behind, and I licked Amandas stomach and nipples in a laying position. We shared laughs and had a great conversation naked for the next 20 minutes. We realized the place was deserted and it was 4 am. We got out of the bunk bed headed for the lockers, dressed and went downstairs with huge grins on our faces. we met outside and exchanged numbers and yahoo accounts and drove home thinking about how bad we want to get together with this couple again.

This was the hottest couple we had pursued and won over. My wife has been having girl on gril fantasies about Amanda since that day and we are going to have a new story soon we hope.

So hot in bed, so hot out of bed.

We walked in and sat on one of the four sofas, turned to look around the dark room and 3 feet away from me is the couple we couldn’t find. veronica couldnt stop laughing to herself and they must have though us crazy or drunk at first. We stared at the TV and played like this was an amazing coincidence. My wife continued to try and choke back laughs.

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This is when Amanda (the sexy blonde) got off the couch and opened Jeff’s pants and began to blow him rightnext to us. They acted like we weren’t there, which is pretty normal in this area if not for the fact that we all knew what the other was thinking. Veronica took only about 2 minutes to act herself and not be shown up. My wife climbed between my legs pulled them down a few inches to my thighs and started to suck me as well. My wife told me to hold her lang dark hair up so Jeff could see her . She made sure to pull off ever few seconds to show my cock to Amanda as they both kept staring over for the turn on of watching each other.

His cock was sort but curved how my wife likes when getting doggy style. We would laugh about how this couple was our perfect match in every tiny detail later. I whispered in my wife’s ear to go help her with him. She only had to slide over 3 feet to help double team him. He had been staring at her ass bent over in the skirt and her mouth sucking on me the entire time. Bt Veronica shook her head no to me quietly and whispered in my ear she wasn;t going to invite herself in on Amanda’s man who she hadn’t even exchange a word with.

The entire time the girls were sucking on us side by side on a sofa behind us a black man was slapping and fucking an older women real hard making noises and cheers for himself. We all laughed about this and it actual broke the ice bewteen us. after about 10 minutes and a few words and tons of stares exchanged at each others girls sucking, they got up and left. They said see you guys and walked out. we laughed to each other and couldn’t believe we stumbled into that scene by amazing coincidence.

So back into secret agent mode, we need to find these guys, they are the first couple we both found to be perfect in every way for both of us. My wife generally likes older men 33-43 ish with some grey, experience and desire to take care of a women with compliments. Tonight though she really swooned for this at first site. He ended up being 29 years old, coming from a well educated background, likely some money and was very very laid back and easy to talk with. She found him to be super cute and likeable, and a curved cock to boot. She was what I had fantasized abot in bed as well. She was just turned 23 years old, only swinging for a few months with little experience straight thin blonde with soft 23 year old skin. What 36 year old man doesn’t have some place in fantasy for a super young blonde?

Read the connected post ill write later……how we got Jeff and Amanda upstairs and closed the Estate 3 hours later

Veronica and I had Vanilla friends plans, and even a new couple we met as a backup plan. We blew them both off because Friday had been such a tease and frankly, we wanted to get some.

It had been a few weeks now since we played, and we have been trying.

Veronica had me take her shopping so we would be our very best tonight. She ended up in a small tight black dress and very high black heels. she looked like a mile of thick strong hot latin legs and cleavage. I assured her we were not going to get out of there tonight without a handful of offers and hundreds of stares. I was pretty close to being right on.

We arrived around 11pm which is about peak time for Saturday. The dance floor was packed fr the first time since joining the life. Alot of good looking people were on the floor, and we are starting to recognize people having a few months now playing every weekend. We went out and greeting a mid 30′s black couple we had met before and from there met a handful more people, as they are quite popular. My wife met another latina, a 38-44 ish women had eyeballed us both all night after that. We spotted a couple our age we had never seen before of a tall guy with gelled up hair, well dressed and handsome and his very hot blonde grilfriend. I thought them to be new, till she had her top pulled down during a few songs. We also spotted a good looking shorter couple we had seen on playfulswingers.com, we said hi and they acted uninterested, we’ll come back to them later for a laugh.

This is where the night turned for the best it had ever. We walked off the floor and brushed right by a couple we hadnt seen all night. It was after 12 at this point and we had not seen them before. They both were very well dress and well kept, both looked like sharp well educated professionals. Him it a white button up, black dres pants, nice watch and expensive black shoes. She was in a black formal dress similar to Veronica’s. She was thin natural blonde with straight hair, great smile and very professional looking like him. She didnt a quick double take on me as we passed, which can be nothing but more often something good.

We went to the bathroom and my wife asked if I saw that couple. she said that guy was so cute we need to talk to them. We don;t really pick and go after couples. We are still pretty new with finding matches in public but started our “secret agent” mode to see where they were.

We returned to the dance floor and they were no longer there. The place is no huge, just 4-5 areas they could be really. We checked the dance area…nothing. We checked the back deck….nothing. We checked the back bar area…nothing.

We kinda joked maybe they are in he movie room? This is kind of a joke as the movie room has mirrors and porn on the big screen with 5 king sized beds across the back of the room. This is where people can have sex in the middle of the general party. This room tends to be older folks only or nothing happening. I like to watch people have sex, but this room is generally a turn off for my wife.

Continue reading where we found Jeff and Amanda and the amazing coincidence.