A Step By Step Guide To Swinging

So you and your wife have great sex, wild sex and are deeply in love with no jealousy? That is prerequisite number one for being successful swinging.

Now you have been watching porn together, know what each other gets off to and enjoy talking about your sex lives with no reservations? Well, that is step number two to being ready.

Now you both equally find some excitement in the idea of adding a girl, guy or couple to the mix. Or you both like the idea of seeing each other being pleased? Well, you guys may just find the added excitement you are looking for sharing your sex lives with others.

A few facts you should be clear on going into the lifestyle.
1. You won’t just be getting extra girls in your bedroom. Give up this common misconception right now. While there are a few single girls floating around, you would have to be something pretty eceptional for them to decide to jump for you. Unicorns (as they’re called) are mythical creatures, and you won’t be some lucky man getting a stream of girls to please you. Secondly, on this same line of thinking, your wife likely isn’t looking to only “hook you up” week after week. be prepared for the, “when we gonna get a single guy?”, talk.

2. You’re not the biggest or the best. If you are going to have security issues with your wife cumming more than you have managed then walk away now. While you do have home field advantage in knowing her favorites, there is always someone she is going to “also” have great sex with. This is not such an issue that you can’t get over it, i’m just telling you something to expect going in.

3. You are going to have bad times. You are going to have good times. Swinging is like dating when you were 18 and your hormones were raging. Everything felt amazing or like the end of the world. Like in single life dating everything is magnified when there is intamacy involved. When a night goes bad it will be very emotional, and when it goes good it will be an amazing time you will fantasize about for months. This is why everyone says they are drama free, but 80% of them are wrong.

More to come on the steps to take to meet your first date.