We have written before about overdrinking in the lifestyle, it is a common problem. Alot of people are tire kickers or just lack the self confidence in certain settings to be the guy or girl they want to be. Swinging is like going back to high school, in that you have to have confidence, style and the ability to walk right upto people if you are to take them home that night. The “dicks” back in high school got all the girls right? Well that kinda will hold true in your ventures into the lifestyle. This doesn’t mean to act disrespectful, by all means never do that. But, like back in your dating youth, it is the guy in the lifestyle who can walk right up, throw an arm around a girl and dominate a situation in a confident way that will have all the options come to them. Those of us to nervous to do this, we hted that guy, thats why I say “those dicks” for being so naturally brave with ladies. The problem here that arrises is that 90% of people are not that......more